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How can I get back at my girlfriend's immature brother?

My girlfriend’s brother pulled up and printed out our AIM conversations (about our sex life) to end all chances of approval with her parents. They say she is to NEVER see or talk to me ever again …we’re crazy about each other and if she continues to see me her parents are gonna kick her out and stop paying for school and I don’t wanna risk her ruining her future …and he makes fun of me (even though he’s 20 and still lives at home) because I don’t have parents (they passed 2 years ago). He has very bad character. I’m 19 and have my own place and work/school and own a small business. This guy’s an idiot and knows nothing about life..I think it’s time for sum retaliation but how? He is in LOVE w/his car. Its’ a Monti Carlo, that would destroy him. haha he would have to ride the bus.. but I don’t know if that’s the best way of retaliation? I want Vengeance, im soo pissed!! send me an i/m if you have any ideas imamazing087 thanks!!!!**

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Answer #1

I know vengeance may seem like the best way to solve your solution- but are you not thinking about your girlfriend who you say you’re crazy about? How do you think she would feel about you doing something like that to her brother? And, wouldn’t it show more about your character if you kept your chin up and kept on trying? Stooping to that level and doing something childish is not going to make you feel better for long- at the end of the day her parents are still going to dislike you and it is going to be even more difficult to patch things up with her family. Plus, damaging someone else’s property is illegal- if you want to be the best you can be for your girlfriend, and prove her parents wrong, maybe you shouldn’t be thinking about breaking the law. I know you’re pissed, so why not talk to him? Tell him how pissed off it made you, explain why you don’t think it was fair and how difficult he’s making things for you and for his sister. Show how much you care about your girlfriend by being the bigger man and continuing to try to make things right. Do the best you can, but please don’t try to get even…it doesn’t help anything in the long run at ALL.

Answer #2

Dude, seriously if you do anything to this losers car you are gonna look just as immature as him! he is picking on you becos he is jealous of you! Sorry to hear about your parents by the way, but you have your own place, a good job and all the freedom in the world and he is still stuck at home, so he wants to make someones life hell so it makes him feel better his life is crappy. People pick on other people becos they have low self esteem themselves and it makes them feel better to bring someone else down, dont let him!! the best thing you can do here is ignore him, karma is a bitch and he’ll get his back dont worry, ignore him, him realising that you dont let him bother him will burn him more then if you chucked a tantrum infront of him! just forget about him, walk with your chin up and that’ll get to him more cos he nos you are a better person, a good person.

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