What to do, run away, or the other option?

how about you don’t… that’s really dumb. you’re 14 years old. you have a whole life ahead of you. either wait 3 to 4 more years to move out, or tell an adult about your problems and get help. running away from your problems solves nothing kid.

u are the real MAN who call his dad an s-hole, ok tats not the real point bt the fact is your good and honest with your love lady and its more better to be with her mean like having her as your wife bt what bout your parents? neway I have good notion bout you because you are going to take a big step 4 your girlfren. so enjoy your life buddy

Thanks, and ya that’s why I don’t want to get her pregnant till we are actually older or married and can take care of a child. And plus my dad could care less if I left, and my mom and sister live in Missouri. But I don’t know about her parents.

Talk to her about the whole thing. Maybe she only wants to run away with you because it’ll be “romantic.” Trust me, my friends have tried this, and all they do is come back to get rid of they’re boyfriend/girlfriend because they’re spending too much time together and are driving each other absolutely insane. Besides, have you thought any of this through? Like where you’re going to go? Or how you’re going to get there? Or even when? Think about it. And don’t get your girlfriend pregnant, that’s one of the stupidest things that a person could do before they’re the age of 21. You still have a life to live. Put up with your dad until you have everything prepared at least.

Don’t get her pregnant. That is completely irresponsible. Running away will only put off your problems for a while, then you will get caught and it will be much, much worse. Try to man up and deal with your problems head on.

Yes I do not want to get her pregnant yet, and yes I’ve thought all of it through already, and we know where we are going

Is he making your life misarble because you are just being the tough teenager or is he making things bad for you because he is hitting you, abusing you emotionally e.c.t… It all depends meaby outting the reasin why you think he is like this… Why is he making your life inpossible…

Because he constantly yells at me, hits me, throws away my stuff, ect. and he does it for practically no reason.

well first of all I’m glad you have a plan and it would’ve been a good idea to have mentioned that you wouldn’t get her prego right away. as for getting there I recomend not hot wiring a car because that’s very illegal and you dont want to get arrested, have you thought about hitch hiking? I did that once because I was bored and my parents freaked but the guy who gave me a ride was cool. but theres always a danger when doing that so make sure you’re armed with something, I always have a pocket knife but if you could get some mace that would be awesome. and it’s really sweet that she’s going with you, I hope it works out with you two. I hope your plan is solid man because everything falls apart if there’s even a small unexpected problem.

ya I thought about hitch hiking and I don’t want to take the risk of putting me and my girl in danger.