What to do when my mom hates me

When school is over I hate coming home because my yells at me for almost everything I do.

When I play with my sister and make her mad a little my says I do it because I hate her and im just playing with her

When I get mad and leave the house my mom thinks im bipolar because I like things to be quiet

My mom thinks im violent because one of my favorite artist beat up his girlfriend

My mom thinks im always focused on video games when I havent even played one in like weeks

My mom thinks I have no life because I dont go out with friends and I dont go out because I have no where to go

When I have a chance to go out I get stuck babysitting and when I dont babysit my sister she finds some to make me feel guilty until I babysit

My mom tells all the problems she at work just to be the center of attention and when I go to her work almost all of her co-workers look at me like some kind of monster

When something happens in my house im the first one to be blamed and when I say it wasnt me and I hardly do anything she doesnt believe me

Now I’m getting frustrated and I’m starting to get constant headaches. I dont do anything illegal I dont smoke, I dont do drugs, I dont drink alcohol, I dont do anything. I’m getting good grades in school, I’m not a troublemaker, but for some reason my mom thinks I am. I’ve thought about commiting suicide but I just cant go through with it. I’m only 15 about to be 16 and I’m starting to loose my mind, I’ve even had a phsychologist but that didnt even help one bit. I dont have anyone to turn to so please someone help me. Please

Answer #1

Congratulations, you are becoming a man!

Just accept the responsibility of what you have not done. Instead of representing more stress to your mom, just hold her and let her know that she can hide behind your back.

  1. “when school is over I hate coming home because my yells at me for almost everything I do.”
  • When she yells at you, hug her and tell her you won’t let go until she shuts up. If she beats you, laugh and let her know it doesn’t hurt.
  1. “when I get mad and leave the house my mom thinks im bipolar because I like things to be quiet”
  • Only children leaves home when they are mad. This is your house, madness should not kick you out.

Moreover, other people don’t have to suffer just ‘cause you are not in the mood.

  1. “my mom thinks im violent because one of my favorite artist beat up his girlfriend”
  • Tell her it’s not his personal life that you like. As long as he doesn’t sing for violence, he is fine, right?
  1. “my mom thinks im always focused on video games when I havent even played one in like weeks”
  • It’s not before a couple of months that your mum will start believing you are not into video games anymore.

Who would waste his time on video games anyway? Your mum wants you to grow up and you are complaining about it! Mine would murder you :D lolz

  1. “my mom thinks I have no life because I dont go out with friends and I dont go out because I have no where to go”

Then do get a life! Find somewhere to go. Show her that you are great enough to have fun ALONE.

  1. “when I have a chance to go out I get stuck babysitting and when I dont babysit my sister she finds some to make me feel guilty until I babysit”
  • Your sister is YOUR responsibility. If you can’t deal with that, then you don’t deserve your sister.
  1. “when something happens in my house im the first one to be blamed and when I say it wasnt me and I hardly do anything she doesnt believe me”
  • Let’s see.. when something happens, real men fixes it and lil’ boys say it wasn’t them. Make a choice!
  1. “now I’m getting frustrated and I’m starting to get constant headaches. I dont do anything illegal I dont smoke, I dont do drugs, I dont drink alcohol, I dont do anything.”
  • THINK POSITIVE! It’s great you don’t smoke, do drugs or get drunk. But it’s not great that you are not taking any steps forward. If you are brave enough to apologize to your mum, go ahead and do it. Just make sure you do not argue, just say sorry.
  1. “I’m getting good grades in school, I’m not a troublemaker, but for some reason my mom thinks I am.”
  • Why don’t you just prove her wrong?
  1. “I’ve thought about commiting suicide but I just cant go through with it. I’m only 15 about to be 16 and I’m starting to loose my mind, I’ve even had a phsychologist but that didnt even help one bit.”
  • Go ahead. Kill yourself ‘cause your mum wants you to be a man. Kill yourself ‘cause she loves you. C’mon.. do it. What do you want? a mother that does not give a damn? a mother that wouldn’t pull you back when you walk the loohoong wrong way?

My friend, please thank your mum for being the great thing she is. Apologize to her for being the negative ever-complaining thing you are.

She loves you. Love her back!

Always keep in mind that love is not words. It is actions. Take one and everything is gonna be alright.

Keep your head high up Greetings from Egypt! Noblez Chavazelle

Answer #2

ok you reallt dont know what your mom thinks just because of how she acts does not mean she think s that pof you or of the things you think she think … lol and you can find some place to go and if you have friends just go over there house or ask your mom to let them over your house and dont feel bad because you have a life of you own ell your mom to stop contrdickting her self you dont know what she says at work and may there just look it seems to me that you feel bad for omethign you have done

and may be its because you dont really do any thing wrong may you should get in trouble a little it might make her happy no lie

and maybe you should point out all the good things you do in life like how you get good grades and dont drink or somke it might make her see whats really going on

dont ever think about killing your self and if you have you should tell your mom that how far shes pushing you shell ease up probley

I hope I helped if you ever need someone to talk to just msg me of comment me =]

Answer #3

well I dont know if this helps my mom yells at me for nothing I could be sitting down doing nothen and shes yells so what I do is say your right im wrong give them a hug just to suck up and go to your room and try to keep a stright face because you know when your right and wrong so I hope this helps

Answer #4

well forget bout suicide k

and every1 I know EXPECIALLY ME!! goes thru this wit their moms sum more then others

sum moms are just like that by personality or personal issues THEY NEVER WANT TO ADRESS

but its your life you know your good and try your best in the end after 18 ull have the freedom to only deal wit what you want to…

focus on makin 18 a break away…from the aggrivation not mom per say

no kidd knws the true cure to moms selfish annoying not able to understand ways but WE know WE’LL BE BETTER BY SURVIVING IT!!

FIND OTHER THINGS IN LIFE TO MAKE A BALENCE Kk

Answer #5

well the best thing to do is sit your mom down and talk about it, let her know whats on your mind

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