What if he'll dump me if I get on birth control?

If both of you arent ready for kids…then why are you having unprotected sex?? Couples who want children dont use protection! WIll he stand by you if you do get pregnant? I really dont think so, not with that attitude. Why are you even listening to your rediculous boyfriend, and letting him control you with threats of leaving you if you go on birth control? If you dont want to get pregnant hun, then you need to tell him that you will NO longer have sex with him until you are BOTH protected! If he leaves you, then let him! Its YOUR body, and YOUR life. No one can tell you what to do without your consent. If you dont start standing up to this clod, then you are giving him the power to control your every move! NEVER let a guy control you!!!

Evidently your boyfriend doesn’t think much of you or he wouldn’t ask you not to use protection. I think he is just using you. Get protection and if he doesn’t like it, send him on down the road. It is your body not his and you are definately not ready to get pregnant. There are other fish in the sea.

uhh then use a condom! lol not to be mean but yeah, u guys should. just tell him your not ready for a kidd yet and use a condom or just dont give him none unless he agree to let u use birth control. =]

What!? I am not saying this to be mean, but honestly, your boyfriend sounds insane. Personally, if someone said something that crazy to me, I would dump him right then and there. I don’t need any more crazy in my life, and I doubt you do either.

I agree with angel. You absolutely should not be having unprotected intercourse unless you both want a baby. You need to get on some birth control. Don’t worry about what he thinks or does.

If you want to go on birth control you go on birth control girl. If your boyfriend doesn’t like that and dumps you then hes obviously a jerk and not worth it! Why doesn’t he want you going on the birth control pill!? Also start using a cndom or get both of you checked out for STI’s. Even if you were both vrgins you can still have STI’s so it’s worth getting yourselves checked out or use c*ndoms. Hope this helped hunni x