What? Last Friday my boyfriend felt me up,sluty or not?

Ok so last Friday my boyfriend and me were hanging out and watching a movie… During the movie we started making out and he felt me up for the first time :) im 14 years old would you consider this slutty? I really dont but I wanted other peoples answers.

Answer #1

Well he’s your boyfriend, I wouldn’t really find it slutty. Unless you went all the way, then I’d be like.. ‘You’re giving it up too soon.’ And if you were hopping from guy to guy and allowing them all to do this, then you’d be considered a slut.

Answer #2

no just make sure its what you want not what he wants.. and don’t move to fast especially if he’s more experienced then you.. dont let him think its ok everytime you make out or watch a movie.. you dont want your relationship to get physical becasue thats where the young loves dies and and the new sex age begins.. if that makes sense.

Answer #3

Im 14 and I let my boyfriend feel me up, but I dont suggest you have sex yet, not a smart move there. But just feeling is totally fine and not at all slutty as long as you only do it with your boyfriend.

Answer #4

Why is it slutty? Do you do it all the time with different people? If not, no. But it’s YOUR choice how far you want to go and when. PLEASE DON’T let ANYONE pressure you into it. If they do, then their not worth it!

Answer #5

not at all, just take things one step at a time, and let him know what u feel comfortable with! tell him what u like…and what u dont like

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