Help with boyfriend???

I’v been been friends with this guy for weeks now, and I was hoping he would ask me out. Well, last friday at a school football game, he finally did. I’m a 14 year old girl and this is my first boyfriend. The entire time on friday, we sat behind the… Bleachers (we just kissed and talked) and it felt kinda awkward for me. I still love talking to him in and out of school on the computer, but when he hugs and kisses me goodbye, I feel awkward and I’m not sure I like it. I don’t want to break up with him. I really like him and he really likes me. I think part of it is that its my first relationship and it just feels strange how different things are now, but I’m not sure. Am I being unfair to him. I know the best thing I can do is to probably tell him how I feel, but I don’t know how without him getting the wrong idea. Please help. Any other options would be great too (and I’d really appreciate an alternate idea, I’m scared to say anything).

Answer #1

I don’t know. on friday we were alone. no one could see us.

Answer #2

You feel awkward when you kiss is it because you dont want anyone to like stare ate you and such?!?!

Answer #3

omg fau!! I’m havong the sammmeee problem. see, I’ve never had a boyfriend or kissed a boy and the boy that I had the biggest crush on asked me out yesterday and I said I don’t know. I see him again on saturday, and we talk on a social site. but I just don’t know what to do! my friends say you only feel funy because he might be your first, but I just feel so akwad and I really do want to go out with him, I just dk how to say yes and not feel weird about it later. + cant let the parents find out…& we go to different schools. ): we play a sport together, talk on a social site, sometimes text, and only see each othere on practice days & competing days. ): helpp please.

Answer #4

oh hmm becausse me and my boyfriend have been dating for 9 1/2 months and I dont like kissing him in public… well when I kissed a boy this one time but he wasnt my boyfriend or anything it was just so weird and kissing him felt like a cats tonge and it was just horrable and then I realize that I didnt like him…not becaus eof the kiss. but I think that the kiss was bad because I reallly didnt like him as much as I thought…sorry if this didnt help…talk to him about it thats the best thing do what you feel is right

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