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What is your longest realtionshp and advice please?!

What is your longest relationship?? And if your still in it how did you make it work?!?

I need advice me and my boyfriend been together for two years and three months . We use to fight really bad like argument constantly breaking up because I would always assume he is doing something or just think negative but lately I been doing real good and we have been too. But its all start to rebuild in me to go back to my old ways how do you keep a long relationship good. I know will have fights but I don’t like the negative thoughts

Any advice or tips??

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Answer #1

Ok I’m in the same situation that you are in. The relationship that I am in now is the longest one I’ve ever been in or thought I would be in until I was 50. We both have a history of cheating on each other. I just recently moved to dallas from tulsa ok for two or three months and believe me things are running through my head all day everyday. Chances are like uberalex0 said your the one thats putting these thoughts in your head and nothing could be wrong. Thinking the way your were could seriously damage your relationship. Believe me I know. Couples that have been in a relationship for a long period of time tend to change a little bit because they become comfortable around each other and tend not to do the things they used to early on in the relationship. That could be the reason why you think he might be doing something or you think negative. The best thing to do is let all of the negative thoughts go and just have trust and faith in your relationship. Everything will work out.

Answer #2

Well, you already know that you’ve done this before, and that he’s never been at fault for anything, so you just have to realize that you’re making these thoughts up. There’s really nothing wrong with your relation, just that you think negatively and end up thinking bad things. Don’t let it rebuild, you have to stop it early before that happens again. Go somewhere you’re absolutely certain you’ll have fun with him, make an effort to be happy with him rather than thinking that you won’t be :)

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