What if a married man wants to go out with you?

Should I go out with this married man that I’ve been talking to and he says he really wants to see me and go out with me? He said he wants to take me out to lunch. But I’m married too and I kind of want to go out with him too. It’s been fun emailing to each other and now he wants to see me.

Answer #1

Hi

I am currently going out with a married man and its wonderful, when you put your self in this kind of situation you need to know the facts and the outcomes of this all. you will not be able to spend as much time as you want to spend with him you also have to respect his wife and protect her in all ways. remember that you are also a woman and you would not like to find out your husband of xyz.. years is cheating on you with a younger or sexier girl. I love this man and I have prevented his family from finding out about me. I do not advise anyone to go for a married man but we all have brains so apply your brain and search yourself. do you love him and does he you, if yes then go for it guys. and good luck from me just leave some space for heart ache now and then and dont get to attached he has a wife and he may not be able to leave his wife for you.

Answer #2

I am going to say No as well, but this is more from personal experience. I recently became friends with a really nice married guy where I work. NOW HE’S STALKING ME! He somehow got my phone number and calls me like 10 times a day. He randomly shows up everywhere I go. His wife threatened to beat me up, and I’m kinda scared. Married men are bad news.

~Tiffany~

:S

Answer #3

NO!

Answer #4

I see you feel your marriage a little scanty. If so, a lunch together with this man may give you the opposite feeling. But be careful in all respects.

Answer #5

No, no and NO! Never ever get involved with any man that is taken…especially a married man! That only causes problems and tons of drama. Bad idea, tell him no. Stay away from a situation like that.

Answer #6

If you believe in fate - who’s to say you were not destined to meet him, and he to meet you… We really are all individuals on the path of life - and are not owned by another. Sometimes a partnership or marriage is just not right, this is why there is such a thing as divorce.

Answer #7

am gonna say have fun but dont take him serious. he is already taken never know he could be merely having a mind game on you. play the game too. but dont take it far he cannot be yours. I too am going through the same at work and mine is worse he compares me to his wife and once practically used me as an example of he husband and me wife but that was during my absence was told by someone else so if its a yes just have fun and no if you are going to use your heart in the game

Answer #8

and this is why so many couples are divorcing.

NO

Answer #9

I am in my late 20s and am experiencing the same. He is a man in his late thirties. I was initially attracted to him but now I know it is because I am a bit lonely and it’s very flattering to have that kind of attention. He is married. But now he is asking me to have lunch with him and I asked him if his wife minded. He looked a little startled, as if he had never considered it and said no, she probably wouldn’t mind. I hate being put in this position because he’s cool and everything but he is not free and I don’t want to come off as a home-wrecker. I finally just made up some excuse about my boss needing me to work through my lunches. Hopefully he’ll get the picture.

Answer #10

wow am going thu the same at work this guy is 88 % of how to tell a guy likes u. he is going through all that to an extent of comparing me to his wife and actually giving an example relating me to be his wife and him husband not to me but to my sis. it was to be a joke but definately he meant it . as for me I would say just have fun but dont take him seriously. we all have one life to live and dont forget he could be having a mid game on u

Answer #11

I’m not sure what to do, this guy’s marriage is falling apart and I’m totaly into him. I think the best would be to wait till they finalize everything. But I’m afraid that it may be too late, or at least if he likes me too, that I’ll seem to be the “rebound” person. what should e the best course of action?

Answer #12

He wants a sexual fling on the side becos he is bored with his marriage, and it sounds like you do as well. You no if you meet this guy you are giving him the green light to see how far you will go exactly, and you know you’ll end up in bed together and then start an affair and blah blah. Do you really want this? are you really that selfish? wat u really need to do is leave your husband becos he deserves someone better that a wife that is thinking about going out with another guy!

Answer #13

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