Decision on not having kids when I grow up, what do you think?

I’ve had 2 children who are now 17 and 19, yeah its painful giving birth, its messy and all those horrible things, but as soon as that baby is placed on your chest all of it was worthwhile! There is no feeling like it in the world! Now they are teenagers its more painful and very messy ( well their rooms are lol)

I dont plan on having kids. Unlike when I was 13, however, I acknowledge that things change, and I may change my mind. But for now, I dont want them… So, I dont see anything wrong with it… Better than having them and then being a bad parent…

yeah I think that you can do what ever you want if you don’t want kids- don’t have kids. plus who says if you say that now you can’t change your mind? you can always still have them!(as long as you still have “aunt flow”)

it looks gross and it doesn’t sound like fun at all…the pain and the ripping apart of your private parts and the bleeding afterwards and the hormones and mood swings…but then again…you’re right…different opinions…plus I am skeptical by nature.

birth isnt disgusting.. I think its actually a beautiful thing when you bring someone new into this world… I would love to have kids.. AND be married. but everyone has there own opinions

I’m not planning to have kids either or get married. not because they are weird. I just find this world far to cruel to raise kids in and furthermore I do not ever want to go through birth…from what I heard it’s pretty disgusting.

you will probably change your mind when you get older. but if its your decisiion not to have kids then good for you. personally I love children and can’t wait to have them but everyone has their own opinions and you shoudlnt let other people talk you out of them. but as I said, I think youll change your mind. I know quite a few people that never wanted kids but have them now and love them to bits. x

YOU’LL FEEL DIFFERENT WHEN YOU MEET AND MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON THEN YOU’LL WANT KIDS.