What do I do that now my boyfriend got sentence 4 10 years?

We have been together for years. Now dont get me wrong I love him dearly. But I seriously dont know how to feel him being away that long. What if he decides to leave me. What should I do with this situation?

Answer #1

Ten years is an extremely long time. A lot can happen in that time. In that amount of time- imagine how many people you are going to meet, how much your life is going to change. Only you can decide what you would like to do in regard to the relationship. However, don’t base it on ‘what if he decides to leave me’. If he is being put away for 10 years- he is really not going to have a whole lot of options as far as relationships and romance. Whatever you do- be realistic with yourself and be real with him. Dont promise him your unconditional devotion and promise him you will not touch another man for 10 years…unless you can truly commit to that. Be fair to him and be fair to you. I am in a long distance relationship- I havent seen my boyfriend for 7 months and its hard enough. We need physical contact and affection…its a struggle. Good luck to you

Answer #2

thanks for the advice. I really appreciate it. well I know in my heart I will never love anybody els but him. I love him very unconditionally. seriously im soo confused~

Answer #3

furst you have to think if you can cope with him being away for so long. next you have to know if you trust in the love betwean you enuff to know he wont leave you. lastly you have to consider what he’s done and wether that ifects how you feal about him or your relationship as a hoal.

good luck

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