He doesn't care that I love him, what should I do?

Okay, I’ve been in love with this guy for over 3 years, last year I confessed my love to him because I wanted him to know how I felt when I was with him, First we were talking and all, then I told him. He told me its better if we just stayed friends and I agreed because I had no other choice. So we stayed friends for the rest of the school year until this year. He was in my class and everything seemed so akward, (btw im still in love with him) we barely talk and if we do its about school work :/ its the end of the year and im not communicating with him at all, he doesnt seem to care but I do! I dont want to spend the summer sobbing over him and missing him :/ pleasee help!!

Answer #1

It’s best just to give up, it’s obvious that he’s not attracted to you. If he doesn’t like you, you can’t just make him. I’m sorry and I know that it sucks when your feelings aren’t returned, but what can you do? You just have to move on..

Answer #2

If it’s meant to be, it will. You cant force someone to like you back, all you can do is hope they do. If not, accept it for what it is and know there is someone out there that will love you back. Just keep an open mind and heart, you’ll see.

Answer #3

I agree with Saved and Juli.

You can’t force someone to like you alls you can do is hope that they do, as Saved said. It’s obvious that he’s not attracted to you, as Juli said. Here’s what I say, if you’re not going to give up, which I don’t think you will ask him if he wants to go to the mall sometime. If he agrees ask for his number so you guys can make the plans. Then you’ll have his number and will be able to harass him all summer long until he changes his number. :)

Answer #4

You’ve made your feelings clear, and he’s made his clear. That’s the end of this story, not the beginning. He’s simply not interested in your romantically, and this is an important lesson that you’re going to need to learn and learn well: just because your passionate feelings for someone rivals the intensity of a thousand suns, that in no way means that they are going to feel the same way about you.

The very best thing you can do in this situation is stop hanging around this person until your feelings fade. As long as you try to maintain this one-sided friendship, you are going to be torturing yourself with romantic imaginings. Once you stop punishing yourself, you’ll be able to focus your affections on someone more appropriate.

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