What can I do sexually, to my boyfriend who's a baptised christian?

OMG! there 16yrs old. No sex out of wedlock are you people for real! Tell me you’d buy a car with out a test drive? Thats crap… it’s sex, it’s normal, it’s natural, it’s fun. My advice do it but take it slow, make sure you both are ready, you’ll figure it all out. use protection EVERY TIME…

‘’Do not lessen the joy of having sex before you’re married.’’

How does NOT having sex increase the joy of having sex? That’s like saying you can only really enjoy driving fast if you never get in a car.

I’ve never been married, and so far, I’ve been enjoying a ‘’lifetime of sex.’’ I really don’t see what paying $10,000 for a wedding has to do with how much pleasure my penis is experiencing.

If you want to have sex, have sex. If you want to wait, wait. If your boyfriend wants to have sex, have sex with him. If he wants to follow a set of rules and dogma written when it was perfectly acceptable to take multiple 12-year-old child-brides, then let him. It’s your lives, and so it is entirely up to you what you are comfortable with.

I’m a baptized christian and I’m not allowed to have sex before marriage. so if he truly follows his religion he shouldn’t be having sex. not even oral sex. its a sin. and if he does that then he regrets it thats a lot of praying and repenting he will have to do.

Yes, you can have sex. But be careful and plan ahead. It’s virtuous to plan ahead.

You don’t want to end up pregnant, and it is also possible one of you are carrying a nasty disease without even knowing it - even if you are both virgins.

As a Christian, it is part of your boyfriend’s religion that you should not have any kind of sex before marriage.

If you do then both of you would be fornicating if he doesnt care even if hes baptized then hes not a true christian, But their will be consiquences For both of you,

xoxo Heidi

It’s really a question of whether he wants to sin or not. There will be consequences, though you don’t see them yet.

If your boyfriend is seriously following his religion then it means no sexual intercourse at all before marriage. however, if he’s baptized but NOT practicing, I think he can do whatever he wants regardless of what the religious teachings say.

Hi again :-)

You should of course not listen to me alone when you take this decision, but I mean that if you two are in love, and you both want to take that step and have sex with eachother, then that is something private between you and your boyfriend. Noone else have any right to tell you “NO you can’t do that”!

It’s your body, and as long as the both of you want to have sex, just use your own mind, and don’t let anyone tell you what you can and cannot do.

I hope you get what I mean. I just hope you’ll do what you feel is right, and don’t let any religious causes stop you from from being human. ;)

Okay, Thankyouu. We are both 16. An have been going out for 2 months. But I wasnt too sure if I could do anything to him. :/ Thankyouu :) x

If you both are the same age, and are old enough, of course you can have sex! Just use a condom and you’ll be ok.

Stop being so afraid of your sexuality. It’s just two people in love with eachother who’s being good to eachother.

If God is so good, why whould he take that away from you?

=)

Bible instructs any sex outside of marriage is a sin…called fornication.

wait till marriage….it is a sin…sometimes it may never worked oout if you are really sure in your heart between god and yourself and you always put god first…

I’m the same age and yet I’m still a virgin your point is really not valid. The Christan belief is to abstain from sex till marriage. Premarital sex is a sin and if she or him really care about their religion and where their going in the fututre they would wait till marriage