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How do I get my shy boyfriend to do sexual stuff with me?

My boyfriend is really shy, and im not used to that. Im used to the guys taking control and im not sure how to start stuff with him… Please help?!?

Desperatley, jessica ;0

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Answer #1

First be sure that he is ready without really letting him know you want it. Then maybe on the sofa (or if you get lucky when you’re in the bedroom) start to kiss, until that turns into a make out. Keep this up for as longs as you can until he breaks away. When he does pull off his shirt and he’ll get the idea.

Answer #2

Stroke his Johnson, he should respond.

Answer #3

You can try dropping hints. When your sitting next to one another, for example while watching a movie, you can start rubbing your hands on his stomach, arms, or legs. Where you rub is up to you but generally the closer you get to his crotch the stronger the hint. Also if he has his arm around you, you can nudge his hand closer to or onto your breast.

Answer #4

If you want to do sexual stuff with your boyfriend, talk to him about it and let him know what your desires are. See if he’s ready for it, too.

By communicating with him, you tear down that wall that’s currently stopping you.

Good luck.

Answer #5

Have a chat about it. Ask him how often they’d like it etc

Answer #6

Let him know you want to

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