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we fooled around, he has a girlfriend but I like him

I’m 16 and going to be a junior in h.s. I’ve known this boy since I was in 7th grade. I talk to him all the time & we’re good friends. he also lives in my community. in december I was walking home from the busstop and he asked me if I would give him a blowjob. I was like ok & did it at my house w/e. then I didn’t see him till the beginning of july. I saw him at the pool and we start talking. then he starts feeling me up in the pool but he has a girlfriend. he says he doesn’t get any ass from his girlfriend & one of my friends talks to him & she says it’s true. he still asks me to fool around with him eventhough he has a girlfriend. but the thing is he’s always complaining about his girlfriend & her parents. his girlfriend’s parents say he’s using their daughter & he’s leaving her for college. he’s 16 years old & she’s 14. im like what the f*ck college is 2 years away & he has a lot of plans & where he wants to go. I also think his girlfriend immature. he has to call her constantly & she doesn’t trust him. he’s not allowed to talk to girls because she thinks he’s going to cheat on her. & he has cheated on her with me by the way.. I’m so confused because I really like him & I don’t know where he stands with his girlfriend because he wants to break-up with her. & also he sends me mixed signals. two nights ago I was at the park with him, my friend, & my friends little brother. he was sitting next to me and with his foot he was sliding it up & down my pussy. he wanted me to give him another blowjob. he asked me if I can leave my friends house early & he would walk me home & me give him a blowjob but I said no b/c I felt that would be wrong. maybe if it was just me & him. my friend says I should hook up with the boy & try to get him to break-up with his girlfriend because my friend dun like the girlfriend either lol. but I dont know what to do.. please help me!

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Answer #1

You call her immature because she doesn’t trust him? Well can you f*cking blame her, he’s fooling around with you, honestly, think about it

Answer #2

for starters you sound quite immature yourself! How would you feel if you were this gf the 14 year old? really have even thought about her and not yourself? doesnt sounds like it. And are you STUPID cant you see he is clearly just wanting sex from you (bj ect)!!!!

Answer #3

Honestly honey..open your eyes…the boy is using you if he truelly didnt wnt to be with the 14 year old and he really like you he would be with you..you are only making your self look bad.

Answer #4

i agree with all the ppl that said that ur immature.the fatc of this matter is that he likes the whold dating thing with the 14yr old girl but he feels that its wrong to do anything with her… you have something that she doesnt.i think u should stop seeing the guy and tell the gf about her bf and that it was an accident to hook up with her bf and tell her what a slob her bf is…and if she doesnt believe you then she probaby thinks ur just trying to break them up so you can have him all for yourself. ~XoTornMemoryXo~

Answer #5

Okay, this is the way that it goes. I have been in two serious relationships in the past 5 years for all of the five years, and Ive seen the way his friends work.Guys look at certain girls as just s*uts, that’s that. They don’t care about them, they don’t look at them in anyother way than a piece of ass as long as the girls carry them that way. If a guy asks you to give him a blowjob and you say yes, simple as that that’s how they see it…nothing more…nothing less, pleasure with no strings attached, he doesn’t like you he could care less about you, you are like a porno to him except a real life version…try to work on bettering yourself as a respectable girl and maybe you will be treated like one

Answer #6

I also agree with “Jules” you sound immature yourself…

Answer #7

Amen Jules! and yes The guy is a Terd Not The g/f He wants sex He uses Girls for sex objects coming to u for ass

Answer #8

ohh dear don’t worrie I know what its like I been there myself well still am kinda but his girlfriend lives in spain so you know but I think boys are just using you even though you really dont want them to be :(

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