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Well I used to be best friends with this girl Suzi in 7th grade. We used to do everything together pretty much. I would usually spend most nights at her place or we would go to the mall or movies or just hang out. She and my other best friend Megan didn't really get along. We slowly drifted apart during the end of 7th grade after Suzi made an AIM screename&&pretended to be this guy I had a really big crush on as a joke, but I didn't find it funny whatsoever. Anyways, all of a sudden during 8th grade I got a Myspace comment from Suzi accusing me of pretending to be our friend Jenn and talking crap to her over the phone. I told them I didn't do her, but none of 'em believed me. They would invite me into chat rooms on AIM&&say pretty rude stuff to me. I asked Suzi why are you doing this&&she just told me I was pretending to be your friend all along. I was hurt very badly emotionally. I would receive emails&&Myspace comments from 'em too. I ignored most of 'em 'cause I know they weren't worth it. All this happened over the Web. I really wish I spoke to 'em 'bout this to them, but I am like one of the least confrontational people and I find things easier to do over the Web. So basically I lost a friend because of Suzi&&later I would lose another to her...my other best friend Shannon. She stopped being friends with me 'cause apparently me&&my other friends were too "weird" for her. I just told her that was a lame excuse. I knew Suzi had something to do with it. They made a hater Myspace 'bout me 'cause they saw me call one of their friends a hoe on my friend Elikem's Myspace. It was just really ridiculous. I see Jenn in the hallways sometimes&&I've had classes with her. It's kind of awkward to be in a room with her for me 'cause our friendship ended rather stupidly. Do you think I should message her&&ask what led her to believe I would pose as her&&try to ruin their friendship or not? &&also should I become friends with Suzi, Shannon or Jenn again??