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My mum ALWAYS talks about the past, and what I’ve’e done in the past, and never just drops the conversation. I have talked through things with my mum, but never in private, it has to be infront of other people. My mum is getting on my NERVES at the moment and it’s REALLY hard for us to get along, yeah, I love her. but how can I stop her talking about the past?

My mum keeps talking about the bad times and can’t move forward, it’s really upsetting me. What can I do to just..stop her before I rip my flippin head off?!?!

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Answer #1

Tell her to stop living in the past and you may b her child but everyone makes mistakes and tell her you have learnt from them and if she doesn’t believe you your just going to have to show her but tell her you don’t want her to keep bringing it up because it bugs you and you really don’t appreciate it at all.

Answer #2

your mum wants you to have the best… and if you think that she means to do it to have you be pissed off, well think again… mums hate their children hurt (even if at times it is us who started the trouble), because they are hurting too… Make use of what she’s naggin about, know and understand her point of view, and soon you’d understand why she’s like that… but what I want you to understand is, she wants you to realize (even on a hard way), that you have to change the way you deal with things…

(maybe your mum is just excited for you to be a fully-grown person, just like my mum… lol!!!)

anyway, let her, and prove her that she ain’t gonna have to do that again to you… dont’ hate her… mums will always be mums, no matter what!!!

Answer #3

my mom do the same hun I just leave she never got nothing to say unless she got a crowd to look down on me let her say what she wants people like to say what you did wrong even when you do right baby its all gone come to pass one day

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