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The Ex wife...

Ok so I have been dating this guy for a little over a month now and I feel I totally love him. and would love to spend the rest of my life with him. but there is one thing I am 19 and he is 23 and he has been married and divorced. Him and his family explained to me that the marriage was a mistake and it was her parents fault.

any ways… She doesnt lives anywhere near here and he does not talk to her but my problem is It really bothers me that he was married an im not or wont be his first wife and anything like that… and… it makes me think when he says things like he never loved anyone as much as he does me and im his one and only… that he is lieing because he was married… but I dont know am I in the wrong for letting it bother me…? If I am then what are some ways I could do to get over it…?

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Answer #1

You’re allowing your jealousy to invade upon a very good thing.

I understand what you’re going through - I’ve always been a very jealous person and I had a really hard time for the first couple of years with my hubby.

Remind yourself of one thing - if he really loved her, he’d still be with her. Accept what he is telling you as truth, and try not to think about his past. With time, these feelings will subside.

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