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suspicious of having HIV

I’m a 20 year old boy.I have ambitions to become one of the best football players but somrthing is stoping me from becoming and that something is “I’m scared to death that I might be HIV+,I know I have to do the check up to get reliefe but I’m very scared that if the tell me that I have that killing virus I would do something to my self,can anyone of you please tell me what I should do to blast through the thing that is stoping me from doing the check up and get reliefe putting in consideration that I can be HIV +

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Answer #1

Maybe you can EASE YOUR MIND by looking for some info on ‘living with HIV’. Not that its a great thing to have, but there are a lot of people out there ready to tell you that it doesn’t mean your life is over, nor will your quality of life be diminished by getting diagnosed.

Honey - everybody who gets tested is scared out their heads to get the results. Very many people don’t get tested because they fear the results. You are not alone.

If you have good cause to worry that you have HIV or any STD, then in your mind, you kinda already have it, so you’re bracing for bad news already, and maybe that’s good preparation. And if you actually do have anything, then you want to get to taking care of it or you’ll regret it later.

I hope you’re fine, but in the future, please be careful to stay out of situations that would make you worry. Right? OK.

Use condoms - 1 at a time, 1 time each. And don’t share needles.

Good luck with your test and your careers in school and ball.

Answer #2

Relax…Ok. Be calm. You need to go to the clinic and be checked. Go take the test and relax. You need to know. stop living in misery and mystery and relax. You will be ok. You may not even have it. And if you don’t, learn from this mistake-wrap it up. If you do (I hate to say), the doctors will treat you and help you to live a healthy life. Just don’t be hard on yourself because we all make mistakes that lead to consequences. Your dreams of being a football player are still there even if it’s the worse of news. Just look at Magic Johnson-November 7, 1991Magic, 47, is not only healthy, he’s thriving. The five-times NBA champion is the father of three children, husband to wife Cookie and has earned significantly more money off the court as an entrepreneur - with a net worth of $US 800 million ($1 billion) - than he did during his 12-year career. He is still living healthy and you can too.

Answer #3

Get tested! I know you’re afraid of the outcome, but the simple fact is…if this came down to the worst possible scenerio, and it came back positive, you can start now being treated. Having the virus is not the same as having full blown AIDS…people go for years with just the virus…

In my heart of hearts, I don’t think you have the virus…give yourself some relief, get tested…what a burden to carry when the chances are you do not have it.

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