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Stop making and being a mistake?

I cant deal with it anymore. Why does my real dad keep calling my mom and asking about my brother and her but not about me. How come he wants nothing to do with me, what did I do? I was only 3 when he began to hate me and say I was a mistake. Why am I a mistake? And the worst part is I keep messing up and I push more and more people away. I dont want to b alone. I dont want to b a mistake

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Answer #1

That is not a nice thing for him to say and must be awful to hear. What he is saying to you does not “define” who you are. Whatever his problem is, it is not right he (as an adult) is talking to you like that. DO NOT let him define your value - meaning how you view yourself. Think in your head, If he does not want a role in your life, then his words can not influene you.

For example, he says your are mistake. I say and you say, NO - you are NOT a mistake and you are here on this earth to do great and wonderful things.

Well, I would try talking to you Dad and tell him that it hurts that he does that. If that does not work, there is nothing you can do. You are not a mistake. You have the ability to really do good in this world. Positivity and good-doing attracts people in your life. You will not be alone.

Answer #2

Yhis isn’t your fault; it’s your dad’s. If he wants nothing to do with you it’s his choice and one of thesse days he will probably regret it. Your not a mistake and if anyone thinks that there wrong. I honestly think that it’s aweful that any parent would think that about there child. You might want to talk to your dad and ask him why he feels that way and how it makes you feel. I hope I helped you. Good luck:)

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