How do I solve all the issues I have at home?

Thanks, the issues are bit my fault i feel. My mum told me not to tell my step-dad about seeing my farther, but i hate keeping things to myself and then telling lies. So i told him and he seemed really happy at first but then he kicked off as she never tells him anything. Also, after i met my dad for the second time; he dropped me outside the house. Mum told me not to let him do that, i did try to say that it would be difficult to get back out again. But dad said that he’d be fine. I can’t exactly say that my mum doesnt what him anywhere near the house. She saw him and kicked off at me… Big time, along with my step-dad. Its just become to much D: even more so with the fact that my mum thinks that i’m wasting my life with a-levels and the fact that i don’t have a job. I nearly close to a breakdown. NUCLEAR!

As cliche as it sounds - you, your mother, your brother, and your step dad need to sit down and have a family meeting. Leaving home is not the answer and this can be solved if you communicate with your family.

Pick a night where all four of you are home and ask that you can sit and talk with them. Make a rule where the only person who can talk is the person holding (pick any object) and everyone gets to say their opinions as long as its calm and productive.

Explain to your family that meeting your real father is something that is important to you. Tell them that you understand that they have had a bad past with him, but you never had a chance to form your own opinion on him and its only fair that they let you try. It sounds as if your stepdad is just feeling like your trying to replace him. Let him know how much you care about him and what a great father he has been for you and that talking to your biological father in no way means your step dad still isnt the man raised you and you call dad.