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Shygirl in the bedroom

My husband and I have been together for 5yrs now, he wants me to be more aggressive in bed, but I just don’t know how to go about it without feeling shy and awkward. Does anyone have any advice on how to overcome being shy in the bed, and how to become more aggressive….eg, I’m too shy to reach out and grab his dick like I want it.

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Answer #1

Buy some new lingerie that makes you feel sexy - he’ll appreciate the view and you’ll have more confidence if you think you look hot.

Push him around in bed, dont just let him lay you where he wants you, push him down and jump on top of him.

Be more vocal. Tell him what you want. You want to change positions, let him know. You want him to go harder, tell him.

While ya’ll are sitting on the couch, just reach your hand over and start to undo his pants - no guy will resist that move.

Try cooking dinner one day, about the time you know he’s supposed to get home. Cook dinner in just an apron - nothing else.

Bring some toys, porn, or props into bed with you. Try watching a porno and copying the positions they are doing. Bring in a vibrator or a vibrating c*ck ring. Buy some handcuffs and edible body paint. Just no big dildo’s dont want to scare the poor guy.

Take some sexy photo’s of you (not nude, but close), use objects to cover your girls parts, especially some of his items. If he has a guitar, use that. If he’s a gamer, use his game remote controls to cover your breast. lol Leave the photos for him to find.

Answer #2

practice,practice, practice

Answer #3

I’ve never had sex but! I am shy the best way to get over it isd by doing it like being agressive I just tllked 2 people so just go 4 it really helps! has this helped :s ?

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