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Should I be a single mom?

Okay here’s a huge question… I’m 27 years old and have been living on my own since I was 19. I work for the military and the state so I’m very financially stable. The thing is I don’t have a boyfriend or husband!! I think I’m done with partying and traveling for now… I’ve had lots of fun in my life so far, so I’m pretty satisfied with what I have accomplished. I know having a baby is going to be very tough and its going to take up a lot of my time and money and everything else in my life. Well I just need some advice from parents out there who can let me know if having a child by myself is a good idea or should I wait to find my soul mate??? Thanks in advance!!

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Answer #1

well I ain’t no mama, but I do know this… it takes two to tango. you can’t have a baby by yourself, because whoever had sex with you and got you pregnant is going to have to be involved in his childs life somehow. accidents happen, but if you’re going to have a planned baby, make sure it’s with your soul mate, and not some bum at a night club. it’s fine if you raise a child as a single parent, but it’s not okay to use someone for their sperm so you can have a baby for yourself.

Answer #2

My advice to you is ask yourself what you want.. the reason to have a baby is to share your love and that would mean that you are emotionally and physically ready for a child… is that you? If so there are options on chosing want you want

A. Do you want a boyfriend then a baby? Marriage? Soulmate?

Options -Be outgoing, join clubs in your best interest. and let nature take its course take your time in choosing the right one. When you love someone and trust someone that is stable give time to adjust to each other first then decide later like maybe a year or so but someone you can see yourself having a baby with. Choose wisely because the person you have a baby with will be involved in your life for the rest of your life and your baby’s because you only want what is best for the both of you.

B. Do you want to raise a baby on your own?

Well there is donated sperm they say you could chose what guy you want I dont know the info on it but you can look it up

hope I helped…

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