Should I ask or wait?

Hey Im 13 too! Srry of the subject. k well I personally would ask cause even if she does get mad she has to forgive you. I mean come on your her um I think daughter.right?

I think that you should ask your mom. I know its hard hearing your mom yelling at you;; but this is your family, you have a right to know about your family. I wouldnt try to find him because you dont know the whold story, he could be a bad guy[[not saying that he is;; just a thought]]. and you dont want you and your sister to get hurt do you? Try not assuming things either. Unless you know the facts, then you cant make a real basis. What I would do is, talk to your mom. Tell her you have a right knowing the truth, and thats all your asking for. Tell her that its really unsettling for you, and its hurting you and your sister not knowing. Tell her you know its hard for her to talk about, and you understand. Thats my advice. Im sorry about your father, and step father. Thats horrible. I really hope everything works out for you. Ill be hoping for you(:

Well, I think this is a toughy. Snaps for you and your sister for being so near to eachother. I think that if you are to the point to where your bio-dad is all you think about, you should ask. However, your mom may not want to tell you because he brings up painfull memories she’d rather not go through again, espesialy with her kids. I am not judging anyone, its not my place to do so, but I think you should consider your mom’s feelings as well.