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I think I may have been sexually molested?

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I had been caught watching porn around eight years old. (I am female) At the time, I didn’t know how bad it was. I was told not to do it again, and stopped for three years, only to start watching it again. I saw one video with a dildo, and blah blah blah, all that crap. Well I didn’t know how to clear my history, and my mom found out. She just took me in her room, handed me a five incher, and told me to go in the bathroom, and do my stuff. I sat in the bathroom for like, twenty minutes just staring at it like “What the fuck!?” I eventually came out, and she asked if I enjoyed myself, and I shrugged. She put it away, and told me to ask if I wanted it again. I am fifteen now. Can this be labeled as molestment? Or sexual abuse?

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Answer #1

No. Molestation is when someone touches you in a sexual way that is against your will. Your mom did not touch you. I think it’s just an awkward situation and she was trying to teach you about the birds and the bees in a really unorthodox way……. I wouldn’t call this abuse. I think you’re just weirded out about the situation…

Answer #2

No ? She didn’t force you to do anything.

Answer #3

I would call it nothing. I don’t know what to really call it. Just wierd

Answer #4

That’s definitely not something ANY parent should ever do. If you were 8 and stopped for 3 years, you’re what, 11 years old now? Honestly, it scares me that you know what most of the stuff you mentioned even are at that age..and I’m 27 (not an old fuddy duddy or anything). If anything, you mom should have told what was going on, what’s right, and what’s wrong. AKA…she should have had the sex talk with you. Hell, by doing what she did, she’s just coming off as dirty as those in the porns and apparently as dirty as she thinks you are. You’re at the age of curiousity, so yeah, you’re curious. That doesn’t mean you’re doing stuff. Your mom has issues and seems pretty sick to me. No molestation but definitely not something a parent should do. Your mom has issues man.

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