is it ok to have a sex with a girl in annal,cause she is virgin? is that causing any danger?

oh come on, hav real sex with her first!

oh come on, hav real sex with her first!

Yeah, why not? As long as she agrees to it.

It’s not dangerous :) but it’ll probably be a bit painful so just go slowly. And yeah like Cassie said, only if she agrees to it (but like, DUH!) and anal tissues are delicate, plus there’s nothing that’s lube-like in her butt so lube up! XD lol but don’t use vaseline because that’s not very good to use in the anus. Don’t cheap out, buy real lube. If she hasn’t done it before, definitely warn her that it’ll hurt at first BEFORE you do anything. Because that’s sort of mean not to tell her. If it’s extremely painful for her, then you’re doing something wrong. It shouldn’t hurt THAT much. Hope I helped :) that’s all I can think of right now, but if I think of anything else I’ll let you know :P

it hurts a bit but tis fun :):)

E

The anal canal is full of bacteria….if you decide to do anything else….WASH your pe*is….

Agreed XD

anal sex can be very dangerous. the anus is very sensitive and can be very easily ripped. The anus was designed for things to go out not to go in. What comes out it contains a lot of bacteria and even the slightest bit of feces getting onto/into the pnis can cause a major infection. Getting any in the vgina will cause a major infection. Anal sex is not pleasurable for woman as it is for men. Men have a prostate glad that is stimulated when they have anal sex. Woman have no such glad. Think that using a condom will stop all infections is wrong. Feces is released with thrusting and can contaminate the area all around the anus. It is not a safe practice, most female say they do not enjoy it and suffer tears. This type of sex is not recommended. Good luck Sue

anal sex can be very dangerous. the anus is very sensitive and can be very easily ripped. The anus was designed for things to go out not to go in. What comes out it contains a lot of bacteria and even the slightest bit of feces getting onto/into the pnis can cause a major infection. Getting any in the vgina will cause a major infection. Anal sex is not pleasurable for woman as it is for men. Men have a prostate glad that is stimulated when they have anal sex. Woman have no such glad. Think that using a condom will stop all infections is wrong. Feces is released with thrusting and can contaminate the area all around the anus. It is not a safe practice, most female say they do not enjoy it and suffer tears. This type of sex is not recommended. Good luck Sue

anal sex can be very dangerous. the anus is very sensitive and can be very easily ripped. The anus was designed for things to go out not to go in. What comes out it contains a lot of bacteria and even the slightest bit of feces getting onto/into the pnis can cause a major infection. Getting any in the vgina will cause a major infection. Anal sex is not pleasurable for woman as it is for men. Men have a prostate glad that is stimulated when they have anal sex. Woman have no such glad. Think that using a condom will stop all infections is wrong. Feces is released with thrusting and can contaminate the area all around the anus. It is not a safe practice, most female say they do not enjoy it and suffer tears. This type of sex is not recommended. Good luck Sue

Sorry for the repeats…the site is acting up. Sue

Something you should know - if you are trying not to take her virginity, then theoretically, having sexual intercourse, whether v@ginally or anally is still sex and it still means she won’t be a virgin after.

Anal sex is considered a high-risk sexual practice, and unprotected anal sex is the riskiest of all forms of sexual intercourse. The hazards are due to the vulnerability of the tissues, as the penetration of the anus may cause tearing and bleeding of the soft tissues and can damage the sphincter muscles, causing incontinence and anal prolapse. It is also due to the high concentration of disease causing organisms in the anus and the introduction of pathogens during the sex act itself

On the other hand….

It can be pleasurable for both of you but you need to know what your doing or it will be very painful for her.

so if i cant?cause she is virgin

NEVER EVER have anal sex without a condom…NEVER. This will result in 100% chance of infection. The feces travels up the urethra causing all types of problems. NEVER EVER have va*inal sex after anal sex this also will result in infections. You must do more reading before attempting this. I feel you guys are very unaware of the dangers involved here. Good luck Sue

i know it has danger.so i asked here to know is it ok or not

yes just use a condom lube and take it very slowley and if it really hurts then stop!!!!

E

sue90, you can’t say that there is a 100% chance of getting an infection after having anal sex without a condom. That’s just not true. If it is, I demand proof.

lets hope there isn’t any proof…anyone who has anal sex without a condom would be totally out of their mind or has no consideration for their partner. Yes, of course you are right there is always a chance you’d get away with it but common sense says that would be rare. Don’t forget 90% of urinary track infections are caused by e coli from feces contamination. Sue

Fair enough, I just know someone who’s had anal sex with their boyfriend many times, because she wasn’t on birth control and neither of them wanted to use a condom. So sure, it’s risky and I fully acknowledge it could happen, but I’m sure for many people it doesn’t.

Yea it has many dangers to it because the tissue in there is very delicate if ur not wearing a condom take it realy slow n use lube because it’ll hurt ur girl a lot . Trust me . She should tell u how slow or fast to go if ur wearing a condom still be very carfull n take it easy but it’s much better if u wear one for preventing any diseases after a couple times it won’t be as painful to ur girlfriend but still is a dangerous area .. If u go to fast u can hurt her badly

Tons and tons of people that I know have anal sex without a condom or have had it, and didn’t get infections : /

This is very hard to believe since 90% of urinary track infections are caused by e coli. I’ve never heard of many people having anal sex without using a condom…Oh yes, those are the ones with AIDS I suspect. We haven’t covered that topic yet. AIDS and STDs can be easily caught through the anus. When a couple has anal sex the tissue is stretched and it cracks. This allows a quick transfer. In Canada 2008 there were 65,000 AID cases. Hmmm, you may be right many aren’t getting urinary track infections they are getting AIDS from anal sex. What I’m saying is why would you take the chance??? Sue

omfg i think people get it the jist of the story is use a rubber wow so hard to say people know the risks but if they wanna do it the will coz its fun and there is dangers in everything you do from walk along the street to extreme sports so there AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!

tis all :/

E

lol XD So the married couples that I know who have unprotected anal sex have aids? It’s sort of rude to make assumptions like that : \

That’d be AIDS, my bad.

:L agree

Yay ^_^

I don’t know why you’re telling me “good luck.”.

MOST married couples do not have unprotected anal sex. They would never put their partners in a dangerous situation. Of course You don’t get AIDS unless you some type of exchange someone who had AIDS???? What I am saying is that is a way AIDS is easily transmitted. So…lets just say that a selfish person may not use a condom having no consideration for themselves or their partner. Being educated is the key. Sure it is fun but it comes with a big cost. So if anyone here is planning on doing this you must read all you can and learn. After all you owe it to your partner to know just what dangers you are putting them in. Shall we also call this discussion over…and ask yourself why take the chance when condoms are free. Sue

Danger of what exactly ?