running outta ideas

hey, i’ve been there. about 4 years ago i went out with this guy who just kept cheating on me. and everytime i forgave him. one night, i lost my virginity to him, about half an hour later, i went into his email, and found out he had emailed her saying he loved her. this was after a year and a half, and each time he said not to worry, and it didnt mean anything! i had my heart broken and now i cant trust men. i just cant. so please just get yourself out! i promise, its the best thing you can do! i just had to respond to you. your situation seems identical to mine. get out!

NO WAY! you are in the right here, after what he did to you, cheated on you for 9 months!!!!!!! WAT ARE YOU DOING WITH HIM? you deserve so much better than this and you dont mean anything to him if only after a few weeks he is back talking to her and taking her to the movies!!!!!!! he doesnt care about your feelings when it is you that should come first to him as his gf, he should be greatful just to have you back and he is already speaking to her again! of cause he is still cheating with her!!!! wake up. you deserve so much better then this loser, you need to dump his sorry ass and move on and find someone better, this jerk cant have the best of both worlds so do something about it, you are not his doormat!