Problem with saying No!

He takes everything I do and uses it as an aspect to say I’m controlling. I don’t know what to do? He thinks me asking him to eat my pssy in return for giving him head is controlling. Do you think it’s controlling to say I’ll give you head if you eat my pssy or is that not just a compromise, and then knowing his reason’s for saying no and not taking that for a reason, because to me how else will we get passed it if he’s just going to say no inspite of everything.

I’m so frusterated and I don’t know what to do, I feel like I have watch what I do and say because he’s going to use everything agaisnt me to prove that he’s right and that I’m controlling.

I think that it is a compromise, as with any situation where both of you have different issues. If he is going to be controlling about an intimate situation like that then you should talk to him and see if there are any other situations or relationships that he has had in the past where there have been control issues. Maybe this stems from one of those. Just let him now how you feel and that you feel like you have to walk on eggshells…hope that I don’t take that out of context

You should sit down and agree that how to satisfy each other’s sexual needs.

Why are you staying with him if all he does is cause drama? Relationships are suppose to be fun, and make you feel better about yourself, not make you feel disrepected. Thats exactly how hes treating you. He doesnt respect you as a person, but only sees you as an object. Relationships are give, and take, by both parties, not take, and take like hes doing. We teach people how we want to be treated. Why would you want anything less, then to be treated with dignity, and respect? This guy has issues. Talking obviously isnt his forte!