Can my Mom make me give up my baby?

Hello, Getting pregnant is the best way to lose a guy quickly. I know so many girls I went to school with who have struggled being single parents because they did what you are talking about. Legally, you could become an immancipated minor if you became pregnant, however, 2 of the girls I know did this, and 1 ended up committing suicide because of all the pressure, leaving the child (then age 6) in and out of foster care and grandparents that didn’t love it for years. If he cares for you, he will wait. If you behave responsibly, and talk with your mother, and work for her trust (at 41 I still have trouble talking with my mother!), she might leave him alone and consider letting you date and be with him. How would you support the family, having a baby with this boy. And, when he leaves you (trust me-there is a 96% chance he will), how will you support the baby? Chances are, he will be ordered to pay child support (he’ll hate you for that one!), and he’ll be miserable for living from paycheck to paycheck, and you’ll be broke from raising a baby! Keep your relationship the way it is now, because if it is meant to be, it will go on, and if it doesn’t there won’t be a child to remind you of old times. Good luck, and I hope the TWO (not 3) of you make it together forever, with patience!

do you know for sure because I mean hes not 18 yet, I mean id already be pregnant when he turned 18. and a couple people told me she couldnt but im wasnt sure?

she could NEVER make you give up your baby. it is still your body. and if you have to get pregnat to make sure your together forever–its not a good relationship. you should HAVE TO HAVE a baby tieing you to each other, cause if your not together forever your hurting the child. you should be married witha good job to supprt it and yourselves.

no I just want this. I mean he does to because hes got a job and a place to live. but my moms separating us because she doesnt like him. and she told me before if I got pregnant shed kick me out.and I really want to be with him. and yeah shes stopping that.

she cant, unless if you were to testify against him yourself. Youu are honestly a slut for trying to get pregnant as ateen.

OK, first of all, WHAT ARE YOU THINKING? You do NOT have a baby to keep a guy. You are obviously way to immature to be having a baby. The fact that you are setting out and trying to get pregnant is sickening. You are soo young, what makes you think this guy is the one you want to be with forever? Having a baby will put a stress on your relationship with your boyfriend or whatever he is. quit being stupid and get your butt to school and get an education. You are not ready to be a parent and you are being very selfish. How are you going to care for this child? you are to young to work. Are you going to live on government assistance and let us pay for your baby? You need to grow up little girl and get over it.

Well…im 15 going for 16 this month and im pregnant. My boyfriend is 17 going for 18 on september. From what I know your mom could make you give up the baby. And yes your mom can put your boyfriend to jail because you are a minor just like me. May I suggest something. Please don’t get pregnant. Its a really big commitmen im telling you because im pregnant and trust me I wish I wasn’t. If you want you boyfriend to be with you don’t try to get pregnant just because of that. If your boyfriend doesn’t want to be with you then he’s stupid because he’s just going to loose something really precious and you shouldn’t ruin you teenage life by getting pregnant. Trust me. I was going through the same thing you are going through.

yeah I guess;I shouldnt.

it just seemed right.

if he is 18 then yes because he would be sleeping with a minor. And I think she could make you give the baby up because you are only 15.

having a baby doesn’t equal you and your boyfriend being together. sorry, but that is the reality of it.