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dont see my dad and I want to go looking, what shall I do?

helooo… my mum and dad split up when I was just three months old and now I dont see my dad or my half sister (my dads other daughter) and I want to go looking for them but if I do my mum and my brohter will never forgive me what shell I do ? x

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Answer #1

I know how that goes. I say do it, because its not up to them, its up to u.

Answer #2

babe you got to do what’s going to make you happy I just hope you don’t get disappointed later you got to worry about making yourself feel complete go for it!

Answer #3

you should talk to your mom about it and tell her like how much this means to you and if they don’t understand do it with out them knowing.

Answer #4

I agree with briexxxlove! DOOO ITTT!!!

Answer #5

All too often are familial ties used as a weapon. :Your ties to your family are by nature very strong. When you find them, you may not be “proud” of them but they are your family. You choose your friends, you can’t change your heritage, you become what you make of life.

If it is important to you, go seek out your biological family. But do not limit yourself to them.

My parents divorced when I was 6. My mother “hid” my father from me most of my life. I sought my father out when I was 30. He died of cancer some year later. But during that 12 months I got to know him again. He wasn’t the man I wanted him to be at age 6, but he was my father. Don’t devoid your life of who you are and those who are a part of you. But never forget you are the source and driving force of who you are.

Answer #6

I think that you should try to find your father and halfsister. I know you think your mother and Brother will get mad at you,and maybe they will.But they’ll get over it.Finding you dad and sister is something that means a lot to you.I say do it:]

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