Please someone answer this! Pre-marital sex

I think that God wants to use marriage as a word picture to mankind, of his faithfulness to his children. There is great satisfaction in saving oneself for that very special someone. Everytime you have sex with a partner, a little bit of us, is left with that person. This leads to a fragmented soul. And that leads to confusion. You find yourself comparing bits and pieces of each person to the other. You can do this just by going with someone, but, when intimacy enters the picture, the comparison is much greater. And even though forgiveness is available, it never erases the consequences. And each partner will be etched in your memory forever. Once you make the decision to go all the way with someone, it can never be undone. Seek out people who are in a committed relationship, or ones who have saved themselves for marriage, and see what they can tell you, concerning this very important topic.

God bless…

Also, captainassasin, it does make mention in the bible and in the law of moses(which they lived by in a great deal of the bible) that pre-marital sex is a sin.

…Nope… it doesn’t…

I dont think its considered a sin. if your having meaning less sex just for sex and not love then shure its a sin.

but if your commited to that person and really love them its not but I agree with what your saying, I never really got it eitherlol

“Everytime you have sex with a partner, a little bit of us, is left with that person. This leads to a fragmented soul. And that leads to confusion.”

So Silverwings, have you had extensive pre-marital sex with different people, since you appear to be an expert on this subject? If not, how do you ‘know’ this is what happens? How can we measure how ‘fragmented’ someone’s soul is?

“Seek out people who are in a committed relationship, or ones who have saved themselves for marriage, and see what they can tell you, concerning this very important topic.”

Of course, people who have done that will, again, only be able to tell you one side of the story.

In the second book of genisis, near the end God makes the first mention of marriage. He says that it is not good for man to be alone, and that he should cleave unto his wife. It does not just state “you two are now married, you may kiss the bride” but it is a reference as many scholars believe to Adam and Eve from then on being married to each other. So, from the beginning of time on this earth there was the institution of marriage. Also, captainassasin, it does make mention in the bible and in the law of moses(which they lived by in a great deal of the bible) that pre-marital sex is a sin.

The Bible is just an old book. Once you stop pretending a god wrote it, your life will be much simpler.

Seek ignorance… and you will learn ignorance…

Well, first we are all sinners at birth because Adam disobeyed got and broke their covenant. Adam is basically the father of mankind so that was a heavy weight on his shoulders. Because he broke the covenant the land is cursed and we die. That was never God’s original intent.

Premarital sex. What is marriage based on? again we go back to the book of Genesis. Adam and Eve were the example of how our relationships are supposed to be. One man. One Woman. And only those 2… nothing outside of that. A marriage is a covenant between 2 people. It was easy for Adam and Eve to be faithful because it was just them, but I guess that’s how you should envision your relationship.

Premarital sex is like, if you’re guy, it’s like you’re cheating on the wife that you haven’t met yet. If you do marry the woman that you were sexing, it still was basically committing adultery in your heart. I admit…lust is a hard sin to avoid. But nowadays, it’s probably the most celebrated one and it could have deadly consequences.