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Hi all, I completed 4yrs of my marriage life but no child. First let me list out our health problems.

Abt Me - I’ve irregular mensus (I.e 3months once) before marriage and took treatment from a expert homeopathy doctor and now im getting my menses before 45days… last year I took PELVIC Scan and found my Uterus normal but I’ve Bilateral polycystic overies. Im still continuing my medicines frm the same doctor and getting my periods regular.

After one year of marriage v both undergone our body checkup and unfortunately my husband was affected with AZOOSPERMIA,(Absence of Spermatozoa). then

  • he took testicular Biopsy and found Absence of Spermatogenesis. Even no blockage found.
  • he is also affected with sugar (because of genetic problem).
  • No thyroid or chicken pox.
  • now taking medicines for his sugar problem
  • no smoking
  • rare drinking habit
  • all his father’s family memebers are fit and having children
  • some of his mother’s siblings have no child

last year, after taking 8 months of homeopathy medicines, the doctor took semal analysis… but the spermatozoa count shows NIL.Even centrifuged deposit smear shows no single sperm.

Doctor, some people says, this can be cured because he is young… some saying that it is incurable… We both are badly longing for a child.. Can my husband’s problem get cured? im not interested in donar.. I want to try all possible ways to make my husband fertile.

I dont know how did he affected with this disease? what the cause of this Azoospermia? is there any alternative for this problem apart from going 2 donar?

pl guide us with good hospital and treatment for Azoospermia. pl help us…

Eagerly looking for your replies…

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Answer #1

I know that I may not tell you what you need to hear, but I have PCOS as well. I have to stay on birth control pills just to have a regular cycle. We thought we wanted to have children too but over the years we discovered that there is nothing wrong with NOT having children. We love each other so much and are happy that it’s just the two of us. It’s embedded in our brains from such an early age that we HAVE to have kids after we get married, that it’s “the next step”. Just enjoy each other and don’t let the stress of infertility put stress on your marriage. Just love each other and be happy with that. I have had to make a list of pros and cons as to why NOT to have kids and here are some cons, for me they out weigh the pros…

  1. Kids are so expensive. Most fights between married couples are about their kids and finances. They fight about the different ways of how to raise their children also.
  2. Do you really have the energy to chase a toddler? Spend a day with someone else’s kids and you will be exhausted at the end of the day and glad that you can give them back. Even if they are good…
  3. Children break your heart because they are first in your life, but when they grow up they don’t feel you are first in their lives. It will be their friends and then whomever they fall in love with.
  4. The world is a very scarry place these days. There are sick people everywhere and you will never stop worrying.
  5. Medically dealing with infertility is emotionally and financially consuming and can ruin very stable marriages.
  6. You have to worry about babysitters…
  7. You can’t just go and do whatever you want anymore.
  8. You would be responsible for how your child turns out and that has to be stressfull most of the time…

I could go on and on, but really it’s not so bad. I will admit that there are some days that I wish I could have a baby but I am so thankful for a husband that loves and cherishes me. I wouldn’t change a thing… I wouldn’t stress over something that I cannot change…

Answer #2

Unless they can figure out what is causing his inability to produce sperm, you are left with two choices: A donor or adoption. I would recommend adoption because it would help a child in need AND because an adopted child would be equally yours and your husbands whereas with a donor your husband may feel left out.

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Answer #3

Prayer. The power is imense.

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