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my fiancee and I have been together for three years and we have two children together, we set a wedding date, we use to have sex like all the time, he has always liked to look at porn on the internet and that is fine with me, but here since we got our computer like a week ago he has looked at porn every night and only has sex with me like once a week. I ask him if I satisfy him and he says yes and I ask if he fanasizes having sex with the women in the porn and he says he just looks to get a quick one when he is too tired to actually engage in sex with me, but he looks just to help but he thinks about me…..my question is am I supposed to believe that or do you think that he does not like to have sex with me anymore?

very confused in north carolina

Answer #1

I’m a woman and I look at porn. In my opinion you shouldn’t be mad at him. I do the same with my bf. If he is too busy or either of us are just too tired(face it… orgasm from masturbation is ALOT faster)

I would suggest ordering a female-friendly porno that both of you might enjoy. It seems really weird at first but it can get both of you in an erotic mood.

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