My shorter version of "Is he telling me something?"

first of all please dont read my first question it has 11 paragraphs on it and its way too long Anyway whoever answered my question on the first one thnx for reading it even though it was kind of boring reading half way of it…

Anyway theres this guy in my skwl J.D, weve known each other since we started high skwl when we were 11 & now im 15 and his turning 15 in a month I think anyway… me and J.D are not that close but were starting to be, my friends catch him stare at me and they even count how many times… he even walk with through the doors with me even tho its sounds lame but we get to touch each other when we both go at the same time and we always go at the same time… I wanted to tell him I’ve liked him for a few months now but I don’t want to be embaressed that he’ll say no… weve been flirting with each other for a few months now as well and even tho my friends thinks he likes me too I just cant do it were both shy around each other, I try to start to av a conversation with him but everytime I do that I feel his making eye contact with me, his been foolin arwnd when im there, and 2day we had an eye contact while me and my friend was going over 2 the toilet ahh!! I cnt keep it anymore I want him to know but I don’t wna feel let down at the end if he say he likes someone else any advise how I can tell him that I l ike him will be great but is it ok if one of my friends do it for me? doesnt it sounds a bit stupid if my friend told him I liked him?

Answer #1

From everything you’ve said (and I read most of your long version, lol) it sounds like he really enjoys being around you and I think you’ve felt a warmth coming from him even though he’s shy. Why not use the music as an icebreaker? People who sing together often fall for each other, lol. Go for it… take a chance because of the possible outcome. And do it yourself.

Answer #2

Im like you lol I would get my friend to talk to him, not ask him out or nething, just tell her to say something like “what do you think about,_ would you ever date her? and then if he seems to be interested just go for it, you have nothing to lose, I mean if he says no yall can still be friends right??? maybe…

Answer #3

Yeh I was planning on telling him today in skwl but he was with his friend ashleigh and it was hard to talk to him alone and im now planning to tell him next week on thursday after skwl because we av 2 weeks holiday after that and I think it can give him time to think… but theres one problem this girl in my skwl who I used 2 be best frends with fancies him too and he knew for a few months now but I don’t know if he likes her instead T_T

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I av a question if I do still tell him is it ok to tell him on msn or ym or sumthing like that probably txt?? because its gna be hard to get him on his own in skwl I don’t see him much after skwl as well & can I av an advice how I can start the conversation with him??? thnx!

Answer #4

Hey as long as you get the message across is the main point but then you’re just putting the pressure on him and he might just crumble and back away. For a higher percentage of success you have to tell him yourself and be confident about it and not make it a life or death situation. If he pauses then be like “OK, then I’ll talk to you later about it” and act like you’re busy with your friends.

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