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need some peace of mind

I been with this girl for about a year, problem is I have to go to jail pretty soon for 18 months. She says she wants to stay with me but her friends keep tellin her I’m a bad guy and she should just move on. I’m starting to think maybe she will listen to them. Plus her parents dont like me because I’m black…she’s white…so they keep tellin her the same kinds of stuff… I’m so frustrated because I will be sitting behind bars and I have no way to know what they are tellin her or trying to get her to cut me loose, or if she’s being faithful to me. She’s a very hot girl and kind of a flirt too…man I just don’t know what I’m going to do being locked up knowing that she is out there…anybody have some advice so I can have peace of mind while in jail?

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Answer #1

I think you should take it (this problem) easy, mainly because you cannot do anything else, only torture yourself, what is good for nothing. On the other hand you might ask yourself about that why this girl would wait for you, do you have any special value? If this 18 months will finish your relationship that was not a really well based relationship, and you may find an other girl for yourself; maybe the right one.

Answer #2

I doubt if it’s a racial thing. Would you want your daughter to be dating a criminal? Best thing to do is make an effort to learn from whatever mistake you made, and do whatever it takes to turn your life around. She may still be around when you get out, or maybe she won’t. If not, there are plenty of hot girls in the world. It’s you that you need to concentrate on.

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