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this question might be a little long winded but I think you need to know what is going on to answer it.

Ok so my Ex and I broke up about a month ago, it wasn’t a nasty break up or anything, we just both didn’t have the time for each other between our jobs and school. So we break up and agree to be friends, since she is the one that broke up with me I still am attracted to her and have feeling for her. She isn’t sure if she wants me back or not and says she is constantly having feelings of wanting me back but is also having feelings of not wanting me.

Anyways tonight she was telling me that she had a really bad headache and was feeling really lonely, so after I got off of work around 830 I went out and got her a bottle of advil and some flowers. Before I went home I dropped them off at her door and about 5 minutes later told her to open her front door. She called me and we talked till I got home, she thanked me and talked in that really cute voice that I always love hearing from her (the tone where I know that she is really happy and feeling special), Do you think I Should ask her out again and if so where should I take her? p.s. already plan on taking her ice skating just need something after that

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Answer #1

no dont do the chalk thing… it would be way to fast for her and a lil cheesy(especially if you barly get back with her) she sounds like shes confused, like if she gets back with you she’ll be missing out on being single. what you did for her probly made her think about what shes missing out on (not many guys out there who are like you) if you want to ask her out… then act on those feelings.. if she denies, ask her why, and for her to be straight forward I think you guys are old enough not to play mind games and if she wants to be with you again, then ide take her to her favorite restraunt and order a really fantastic desert(like ice cream jk) but something you know she would realy enjoy, you dont have to go all out and romantic… just be yourself because thats who she wants to be with. p.s lol shes crazy if she says no

Answer #2

Take her for a walk in the park, and if you really want to be slick, take chalk and write stuff about you 2 on the sidewalk so when you walk just be like oh look? and if you love her tell her you love her , like write a heart on a tree with your names in it. chicks dig that. ;)

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