How can I make my mom stop doing this?

my mom cant accept the fact that I dont need her. like ill be cooking somthin and shell come and start telling me how to do it and like start directing me and I get sooo frustrated and like ill be doing my laundry and go to get sumthin and she”ll yell to me’’’can these go in the dryer’’ sumthin and its like f*ck off mom I know how to do things I dont need your help!!! I’ve tried telling her that it makes me mad but she still keeps doing it! how can I make her stop?

Answer #1

I don’t think that’s always the case. she could just be a mean lady… she could also want her to feel inferior to her. point is, it could be anything and we should ask is she a mean person in general? and I agree with being nicer but clearly shes acted in a way to anger our friend here…hmmm…

Answer #2

Agree with Ty, pretty much sumed it all up in a nutshell with her answer.

Remember you only have one sets of parents, one day you are going to move out of home and you will miss not having your parents living under the same roof as you..

Not trying to judge you but it’s very disrepectful to say you that hate your mum and that you want both of your parents to F–k off… if your mum didnt pop you out, you wouldnt be here hey…Is this the usual way you talk to your parents and especially your mum???

I have both a mother and a stepmum and could never ever speak to one of them like the way you address your mother…lol if I did, I’m sure my dad and stepdad would kill me :)

Answer #3

ty: shes not important in my life I hate her and I dont wanna take her feelings into concideration. I want both my parents to f*ck off and leave me alone!

Answer #4

Your mother wants to feel needed. I know I know, teenagers, bid for independence and all that. But if you really want to be treated like an adult, maybe you should start acting like one. And that includes taking other people’s feelings into consideration. I know you feel like she’s stepping on your toes, but she really just wants to know she’s still important in your life. So, why dont you try being a little nicer to her, and she might respond by backing off. Just tell her she should relax, and you’ll handle it.

Answer #5

you really can’t I went through the same thing but its just her getting scared because your growing up to fast lol I don’t know thats how my mom was till I was like 16

Answer #6

when you are cooking and she comes to bother you just be like mom your cooking has changed over the years and I actually prefer the taste of my own cooking so please leave me be. and when you are doing laundry and she annoys you just be like mom my clothes have been stretching/shrinking lately and that they need to be washed in a certain way where she does not understand. but try to say it in a nicer way :)

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