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ok I am 24yrs old and have been w my boyfriend for 3 years, hes 32. for our first 2 years we both worked seasonally on a local party island and we had our drunken ups and downs but we are just so in love. everything was sooo amazing, I really mean my heart would beat so hard when he kissed me, but he went back for anothr summer and I stayed at home and worked..and well everything changed overnight, trust & jealously and things said that you cant tak back-pretty much everything a long distanc relationship is whn you are crazy about that person…he is now back and we took 2 weeks apart to evaluate everything becz the fights werent being resolved. over that 2 weeks he promsd to step up since hes been gone and promsd to treat me like a queen and I of course promsd the world and we got back togthr and its still edgy bt its like our sex is different…I guess im just feeling lost…im gonna be 25 soon and I feel like I could either keep going on trying to respark a flame that I want so bad but is just an emotional mind-f* or I cn be happy and just live my life..I want him to be the one but im having a hard time nt being cranky arnd him I dont know wht to do…I feel like im lost and exhausted w life and love…im writing on and on and still havnt evn written the whole story. im just exhausted

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Answer #1

I guess just stop worrying about it. If he is the one then he is the one. You can’t specifically choose who your going to fall for or who is “the one”.lol. That’s been planned out since you were born. So just keep living your life and try to stay happy.

Answer #2

Someone once said to me that once you’ve brought out the worst in each other you can never be really happy together. I argued with her at the time, but over time have come to see what she was getting at. Once things have been said/done, out there in the world for all time that are way too hurtful or negative or crossing a personal line, it’s really hard to look at that person properly after. If it’s really worth it I believe everything can be worked out, but it’s true that it’s rare. Was it him being jelous and stuff when he went away, or you? if it was him I find that really odd, like maybe he was guilty. Dunno. Maybe it is time to move on, but only you really know the answer to that, but talking out loud about it def helps. I hope it works out for you either way!

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