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My friends have found out I'm seeing him again

I have recently started seeing my ex-boyfriend again that was not very nice to me in the past at all. Lots of bad things happened and it ended with my parents and friends never wanting to see or hear of him again. This was two years ago. We have grown up a lot more and realised that all we rele needed is a fresh start and to forget the past completely…since this started again about 3months ago we have been sooo happy together and everything has been great. Acept I only told three of my friends who altho concerned for me believed that this time I was calling the shots and I understood what I was doing. Unfortunatly for me two girls (who I dont even no that well) saw me getting into his car with him and procceeded to tell all of my other friends. One of them was sobbing to another and I got abusive messages from others…its the weekend now and I wont see them again till monday…please tell me what I can do to make things better…

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Answer #1

yeah thankyou…argh its jus the friends I havent told seem to be completly gutted that I didnt tell ‘my closest friends’ and they feel betrayed that I didnt tell them…

Answer #2

wow..I think danielle has said it all…tho you and boyfriend had a bad past.. it has been 2 year..and it seems that you’re grounded by callin the shots and noein wut you’re doing!! you’ve told 3 of your close buds that support you with the relationship…so its all good!! and the rest of em dunt even matter!! … no matter what your other friends say or do…the choice is yours to be made in the end =)

Answer #3

Thankyou for that :) second chances…hmm if im completely and utterly honest this guy has had a few more chances than a second…however these chances were in very close times spaces so we didnt have time to spend time apart and see how things turned out…this chance has been after a longer time space but I can see he has grown up a lot more and I have matured and am no longer the naive little girl I used to be…

I think if anything my friends are upset that I didnt tell them and they had to find out the way that they did…and I no you should have told them…

:( x

Answer #4

I THINK THAT YOU DID GOOD BECAUSE YOU GUYS NEED A NOTHER CHANCE

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