My Dad wants me to have an abortion

tell your dad that abortion is AGAINST THE CHRISTAIN (INCLUDING CATHOLICS, LUTHERANS, ORTHODOX, ECT.) AND JEWISH RELIGON!!!

tell your dad u have legal rights and he cant make u and if he tries to kil your bf that would be assult and he’d be only hurting himself

your 16…its up to you, not your dad!

I could never have an abortion…if you want the baby then go for it! :) but make sure the father of you son/daughter is going to support you

xx good luck xx

I am really sad to say that you do it much better if you will not have this baby. That is so rare when a 16 yo mother, like you now, wants to keep the baby, and that could be so nice; but 99% of this type of mothership will bring a very bitter life for the mother, and sometimes for the baby, too.

this happened to my cousin. her dad said he would hunt down any man that got her pregnant and he was quite violent at times so she really was scared about what he’d do. but like you she was against abortion. in the end she went ahead and had the baby and had a beautiful baby boy whos just turned 2 years old. during her pregnancy her dad ignored her until she was 8 and a half months pregnant when he was delivered. now hes the best grandfather he could wish for. go for it you’ll be suprised in the end. good luck hun.x

F** YA FATHER ITS YA BODY AND HE WOULD HAVE TA DEAL WIT IT SOON OR LATER IF HE THROW U OUT GO 2 DA POLICE CUZ HE CAN GET IN TROUBLE 4 THROWIN OUT A UNDERAGE GIRL AND THEN HE HAVE NO CHOICE BUT REMEMBER THIS YA PARENTS COULD B ANNOYIN BUT HE CAN B TELLIN U WATS BEST 4 U SOMETIMES I WISHED I LISTENED TA MY BOYFRIEND AND MY MOTHER NOW IM 7 MONTHS PREGNANT AND 16 AND DA BABYS NOT HERE AND ITS ALREADY HARD

well you should find out if you are pregnant and you should talk with your father about it, calmly. if you can. i personally dont believe in abortions either but you should make your own decision, its your life and your baby. then you should also have a talk with your boyfriend, and discuss with him your plans for parenthood, financial issues about having a baby, and planning everything there is to have one. you should do what u feel is right, and i know u probably already made ur decision cause this post it old, but i hope yourhappy, :)

dont do it as is you know doping abortion is an crime, dont obey your dad than how you can obey GOD .IF YOU are pregnant just be read to be the nice mom of your kid . my dear imangine if you oborted by your mom ,wher coud you be to day .good luck

its your body not your fathers you have the right to decide to keep it or not. [keep in this situation] tell him if he cant live with his own granddaughter and not help out with it, then tell him you’re going to move in with someone else. [mother, grandma, friend, aunt, etc’] and tell him its your right to choose what you want to do and his decision doesnt have any effect on you.

did you have your baby?

ok you need first work out whether or not you are pregnant or not. if you are then you need to sit your father down and gently explain to him that you are pregnant and you are keeping the baby, your body your choice he cannot force and abortion on you, and also that its not your bfs fault, you are just as much responsible and explain that you both want the baby and the father is going to support you no matter what. Now he is going to be mad, very mad for a while but you need to be understanding in that respect and give him time to accept it. He may ask you to move you so hopefully you have some where to go.

Contract the rights to live organization…they will be able to help you. Good Luck!

You have to do what you think is right, not your dad. it is not his decision to make. I’m a guy so I don’t understand what you are going through, but I had to deal with my controlling father for years, until eventually I stopped talking to him. Your dad is probably just so shocked that this happened and needs time to cool off. if he persists, just take a stand and tell him how you want to take care of the situation. If he makes things so difficult, try to live with your boyfriends parents or even a friend’s if you have to. But in the end, don’t let someone make a decision that is so important in your life control what you do. It will affect you much more than it will him.

dont do what your dad says.

please dont kill your baby your dad will grow to love and accept it!

if you wnat it your father has no say my dear. You do what you feel is right. if anything give it up for adoption. talk to your boyfriend see how his parents react. your fatehr cant kill your bf.

firstly find out if your pregnant or not. most likely, your father will not change his opinion about him wanting you to get an abortion. I know if I were to get pregnant right now I’de either be forced to get an abortion or I’de be out on the streets. if your absolutely positive you want to have the baby and you know your boyfriend will be there and your dad is still pushing the whole abortion thing, get legal about it. he really cant force you to get an abortion legally. or you could get amancipated. then he really couldnt do a thing about it. good luck (:

Its your body, and your choice, do what you want do not listen to anyone else even your parents, because your the one that has to go through it which ever option you choose.

dude honestly most dads. they say they are guna kill your boyfriends but when the baby comes out they are all happy

Sit down and talk with your Dad. If his support with a pregnancy is completely out of the question then perhaps you could get emancipated and start a life with the father of your baby.

“… The word “emancipation” literally means to become free from the control or restraint of another. In the context of emancipated minors, emancipation is essentially a legal procedure whereby children become legally responsible for themselves and their parents are no longer responsible (financially or otherwise) for their children. Thus, emancipated children are freed from parental custody and control and essentially become “adults” in many ways.

Parents generally have the legal right to custody and control of their unemancipated minor children. Parents can decide where their children will live, what school they will attend, what medical treatment they will receive, and what religion their children will practice. An emancipated minor, on the other hand, is free from such custody and control.

Emancipation in General

As soon as an individual turns 18 he or she legally becomes an adult and is automatically emancipated from such parental custody and control. Likewise, when a minor marries or joins the armed forces (with parental consent and permission from the court), he or she becomes emancipated from his or her parents.

Although in some states a minor can become emancipated simply by declaring himself or herself emancipated, in California a minor over the age of 14 has to petition the court and obtain a declaration of emancipation from a judge Ö a complex proceeding.

Some parts of the United States have quite liberal procedures. Louisiana and Puerto Rico, whose legal systems rely heavily on European law, allow parents to confer a limited form of emancipation on their children with very little interference from the judicial system. A number of states or regions such as Illinois and the Virgin Islands also allow an expedited form of emancipation with parental consent, although this legal procedure is only designed for older teenagers. MORE.. http://usmarriagelaws.com/search/united_states/emancipation_of_minors/index.shtml

yes i dont believ in abortion either i might be expecting to but reguardless of wat my mother or anyone in mmy family thnksz or says im not getting ridd of thisz baby if to turn out pregnet have ur kidd your dad just saying that but u no all fathers would be mad to no there baby gurl is pregnant ya feeel me but ohhh well ur at age were u can get an immancipation but i dunno just have the kidd ur dad wont do dhit thatsz wat they all say time will pass by and u regret everythng at first but after a while yearsz will pass by and regrets wont be regrets like they say nvr regrt somrthn that once made u smile u no u didnt really care for consequences while conciving the baby i didnt but i new i might turn out prenant but still tho im pretty sure if u have the baby it’ll be the reason u smile reson u live for you never have to feeel lonely again! ur dad was part of wat made u and hey he dint make ur mom abort u obviously not cuz ur here but still tho how’d u like if u 2 an aborted babie u wudnt no becuz u ot to see light and ur living ur life as we speak!

You could have the baby…Just remember all that will go with it…Forever. It’s not like a pet or a toy. Parenting is not something you can choose when you want to do it…It’s not something you can put on hold. People try and do this and their kids turn into an absolute train wreck.

Parenting is 24 hours… forever…24/7. If you and your boyfriend don’t want to sit down and except this…(without kidding yourself) then have the kid and put it up for adoption.

You may really be ready for this. Are you and your boyfriend willing to marry and give the kid a secure homelife…(together)? Is he ready to give this kid his name? If he is not already working..Is he ready to work hard everyday to support you and your child..(Without Government assistance)? So many kids are born into this world where the mom and father get googly eyed. They tell all their friends and family and when the novelty wears off so does the parenting. These kids are then basically left alone to grow up themselves (ALL THE WHILE THE PARENT GLOATS HOW GOOD OF A PARENT THEY ARE) It can really be discusting. Maybe this is where your dad is coming from…You still don’t have to abort it. If after you read this and choose to have it you can always put it up for adoption. Familycoach

If your dad threatend to kill your boyfriend, you need to let boyfriend know and maybe he could go to the police. Try and calm it down before it goes crazy. You both are going to have to address the father. You could run away but thats not the answer either. If he won’t let you live there with your baby start now to find a place. You could go to your local family services and explain your situation..Tell them you made a mistake but you want to keep the child and you need help in finding a place to live and tell them why. You also want to ask the boyfriend how he is going to provide for you and your baby. Familycoach

ok gurly heres my point of view… this is you body is ur responsability and is ur and ur boyfriends baby.. to have an abortion u r the 1 who has to sign the papers to have it without sighing the papers u dont have to have an abortion.. so dont worry.. just sit down and tell ur dad that u want the baby and their is nothing and no 1 that could stop u from that… u have to know what big of a responsability it is to have a baby and your boyfriends has to know 2.. the only 1 that has to agree of having that baby is u… and if ur dad is so vilent and tell u that hes going to kill the father tel him that that will cause ur baby not to have a father and that that is going to be worse on the baby and u.. good luck gurl take care and go get checked.

this happend to one of my best friends and she sborted!!! my opinion that was the worst desision ever I am totaly against abortions and if you are to haveing one will ruin your life youll be emotionally crushed and as far as your father he will deff bevery upset for maybe a long time but hell get over it eventually your his little girl and im sure after a while hell respect your wishes and support you but befor you tell him you should deff make sure your pregnant!!! =] hop this helps good luck

ok youu needd too tell yourr dadd howw youu feel. andd iff youu guyss wantt too keep itt itss yourr guyss choice. nott yourr dadss. whaat your dad is tellingg youu iss soo stupid. hess just trying too scaree youu into nott gettingg pregnent. plus you are 16 so you dont even havee too bee livingg at home any more. if your dad reaaly didnt want you too keep thee baby that bad then you could move out. im 15 andd imm moved outt and pregnant. soo youu knoww what hunn doo whaatss in yourr heartt!. <3 andd doo whaatss rightt forr youu thee baby andd yourr b/f not your dad.

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well you should find out if you having a baby and if you are having a baby then you need to tell him if mom had me at a young age would you tell her to get rid of to me and just plan what you are going to tell him so it wont be that hard make sure you and youre boyfriend have a job that why he wont think you are not responsible just make sure you plan every thing

dont do it…im 16 when I was pregnant the father and my father didnt want it and both threatined me…my dad scares me so I did it. I got p.t.s from it and havent been the same since. I’ve tried to kill myself multiple times. I never mined being getting pregnant. but when I got pregnant I felt I was already a mother. which I was. once you find out your pregnant your jobs to to take care of your baby…id do anything to get my baby back or get rid of my guilt..plez don’t be like me