I hate my brother

your brother clearly has a drug problem. is your mum aware of it? becuase all the time he has no reason to get work, he won’t - why would he? he has a roof over his head, food in his belly, warmth on his back and money (apparently) in his pocket. the only thing you can do is make your mum aware of how it s affecting you.

I have two children, and I can tell you this now, I would kick my kick out if he was like this. he’s taking the complete p155 out of your mum and taking what he has for granted, you don’t appreciate anything until it’s gone.

it’s a risky move, and can go one of two ways 1) he goe’s ‘oh my god what have been doing with my life, off I toddle get a job and grow up’ or 2) he’ll end up living in a dumper truck and turning to crime to support his habit…

one misconception is parents should NOT feel guilty…it’s all about choices, and you can’t choose for someone, it their choice, moreover, it’s their respoinsibility what they choose..

see what your mum thinks, explain to her how you feel and ask her how allowing him to continue with this behvaiour is going to, ultimately, help him? it’s difficult with children because you always think ‘what have I done’ or ‘what could I have done to make things better’ the truth is, parenting is experimental - each child doesn’t come with a manual and parents do the best with what they have…

you can do very little apart from sit down with your brother and ask him what he’s doing with his life, and what he wants to achieve. ask him if he really thinks he can, or it’s fair to live the rest of his life the way he is? also, that if he’s unhappy about anything, he can change things and he has control over his life…

sorry for the poop situation…must be so frustrating…