My Cousin Takes Playing Seriously

You know how in school you walk past somebody and say ,eeew? well I did that to my Cousin and now she took it all serious even though I was playing and starts hitting me and Kicking me and she said things like I wish you’d die or loser.What should I do? We are in different grades and I don’t know how to tell her anything.Any advice?

Answer #1

sounds like your cousin is sensitive, and has trouble dealing with her issues… lots of people do. Be nice to her. Maybe she’s realy insecure about the way she looks, and then you came by, someone she knows and loves more than regular people cause you’re cousins, and say eew…

it’s like being betrayed by the last person on earth. It’s like “no matter what I am, my cousin will love me, no matter if my face falls off, or I lose all my teeth, my cousin will love me for who I am” but then you say “eew”. And the security blanket falls off, and she feels completely alone in the world.

Be nice. Tell her she looks good. notice things she does that are new or different, and build up her self esteem.

Answer #2

well first off “eww” is a thing kids say as a joke but can be taken pffensivley by other people, because its kind of like saying “omg your disgusting” and im sure youd be offended if someone said that to you as for the hitting and kicking you though, that is abuse and it IS illegal what she did was wrong, and violence is not the way to deal with being called a word tell the techers/priciple and school counsellor about this so they can have a talk to her or both of you and get this problem sorted out

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