My boyfriend wants to take things slow

When a guy tells you that he just wants to take it slow, he doesn’t mean that he wants to break up with you.

There is something he is trying to get through your head. You are probably carrying on too far with him & he doesn’t want to jump right into the intimate things if you know what I mean.

There’s got to be something that he believes should happen first. If I were you, just wait patiently :)

You don’t want to push the guy away. You have something good coming for you.

At least he really does care & by him saying that, you should know by now that he is not fooling around with you or any sort of thing.

A guy does not like it when you talk about your past relationship. Anything to do with the past will push him away. It will either make him jealous or ashamed.

It will make him think that he’s not good enough for you. Just because he’s a virgin.. so what? He wants to give it some time.

You don’t just date a guy for a week & than have intercourse with him just like that. He wants to get to know you better. He wants to spend more time with you.

He’s obviously showing you he cares & doesn’t want to tell you he loves you too much cause that will just give you the weapon to hurt him. He doesn’t want to lose the good things that has happened to him.

Don’t try rushing the relationship. He will tell you if he is ready to do things with you. Sit back, enjoy the relationship & have fun :)

You don’t have to have intercourse to show that you love each other. Even giving each other a massage, going out to the movies, enjoying a romantic dinner together, going for a walk, going to the workout gym together, going shopping together, going snowboarding together, going swimming together.. all the stuff you basically would do with your friends.

That should show him that you love him :)

It will give him the chance to know you as a better person, be assure that he has found what he is looking for & so on.

If you don’t want him to loose interest in you, start talking to him in general (but remember not to talk about how much you wanna be with him, how you want to be married, how you want to have intercourse, how your ex boyfriends treated you, how you give head & what not.. you want this to be a surprise! Don’t get too personal.

Guys don’t really like that. If a guy gets too personal, you obviously know he is after only one thing.) Hope this has helped a lot.