My boyfriend acts like my mom!!!

So I have been dating this guy for about a year now. I do love him but there is times when he drives me insane. He tells me what to do and always says whats best for me. I try to give him signs that he is being to control them but he doesnt get them. What do I do to stop him from controling me

Answer #1

He has control issues deriving from childhood, where he wasn’t able to control situations and therefore was unable to stop distressing and unpleasant things happening. Therefore, he seeks security through controlling others to keep his fears and insecurities at bay.

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