my boyfriend is in mad love with me but im in love ith someone else

I know exactly how you feel..I’ve gone thru the same thing.I was with my boyfriend for 8months we broke up like 9 times bcus of him I felt sooo bad bcus for 4 of those months I was completely in love with another guy…after a while I found out that the other guy was in love with me to and as much as it hurt my boyfriend I had to break up with hiim cus it want fair to him or me so you need to just break up with him

FIrst of all, you cant do things based on what other people want. If your heart is not in it with your boyfriend, then you need to break up with him as gently as possible since hes really in love wit u. it isnt fair to him, u, or the other guy if you stay with your boyfriend because it’ll just be a fake relationship if you do. so, just break up wit your boyfriend and go wit da other guy. Everyone has to get rejected some time, unfortunately, but that’s life.

If you’ve read my previous answer to a question of yours, the idea there can also apply here.

In addition to that: in a breakup, let the guy bring it up as much as possible - let him be the one to cut the ties with you.

The point here is to make him think the breakup idea is his own.

Breakups initiated by girls have a way of encouraging some guys to find ways to get back to you - he is that type of guy. But when a guy like that does the break up, he won’t look back.

Make him feel how boring you’ve become and that a much better love life awaits him in the arms of another girl - but do that gradually. That way, he won’t feel any sort resentment or any lingering affections for you…

Again, I hope I helped…