Mom's a cheater

Yeah, don’t talk to your dad, yet. Talk about it with your mom first. Having your parents cheat isn’t fun… trust me.

Don’t tell your dad - talk to your mom.

Tell her that you know, and either she ends it immediately or you’ll tell your dad. Hopefully, she’ll do the right thing and open up to him so they can try to save what’s left of their marriage.

no it’s not my dad that’s cheating it’s my mom and it’s been going on for over a year now I just don’t have the couarge to tell my dad because I know he will be hurt :[

Well, If you have proof the better. But the right thing is tell your Mom that you know, talk to Her first maybe She will end the affair if She knows what would happen next. Confronting Her that you will tell you Father about it. But if you will tell your Dad ( if your Mom doesn’t stop the affair) be gentle…and with care..with tact.

I wish you luck.

Hell yeah! I’d tell him easy, but, I wouldnt let her get away with that nonsense!

First - be certain / have proof - confront him with the evidence, giving him the chance to make things right - do the right thing - if it doesn’t happen, she has the right to know…this is hard, I wish you the very best !!