Mom is very sick! I'd die if I were to lose her :'(

There is a lot of technology invested in cancer research these days. There have been many survivors as a result. There is still hope.

On the other hand, if there isn’t anything that can be done, please be strong, if only for her sake; she is going through a lot of pain herself. She would lose her family and her life. I know you are suffering too, but if you can put on a cheerful face for her that will ease her pain, I’m sure.

I will say a prayer for you, good luck sweetie. :)

I am sooo Sorry 4 u, please if you need to chat to me personally other than in here funmail & I will give you my email addy or msn addy & we can chat, it may not be cancerous & I have had people in my life where Dr’s have said the same & they have lived through it & cancers has gone,

you need to stop thinking about cancer runs in your family, for thats speaking bad words over yourself, it is scary what you are going through, but the Drs are not God & we have an Almighty God, do you & your Mum belong to a Church?… if so put her in for prayer request, also do you or your Mother mind if I put her name down for prayer at my own church where we attend? ask her & let me know, I also will continue to pray for her as well, please try and be strong, just have faith, God bless you x

Mine is kinda similar. im 14 and my mom has been in the hospital some many times I dont know if she can go on anymore. She has a leaking Valve in her heart, also her liver is damaged, now from all the damn pills shes taking to keep her alive is screwing up her kidneys. Just know your not the only one having problems. I hope your mother makes it and has a full recovery. I have only one thing to say “Tell your mom that you love her very much, and to keep fighting”. that’s all you can do.

“the same heard paul speak: who stedfastly beholding him, and perceiving that he had faith to be healed.” if you have faith the size of a mustard seed you can move a mountain…all you need is faith…just your faith alone can be enough for you, and your mother. I will pray to my Father for your faith.

You said the doctor told you it MIGHT be cancer. So it might not.

She could have benign tumors, and she’d be totally fine.

Even if it is cancer, there are many treatments–hysterectomy, chemo, pills, etc. Don’t work yourself up when you don’t know what’s going to happen.

MY MOTHERS NAME IS CHRISTINA.I HATE TO TELL YOU THIS BUT MY MOTHER IS A NON BELIEVER…AS FOR ME I BELIEVE…I USE TO GO TO CHURCH BUT I RECENTLY MOVED AND NO LONGER TEND TO CHURCH AS I SHOULD…BUT YES PLEASE PRAY FOR US.IT WOULD MEAN a lot TO ME.THANK YOU SO MUCH LITTERED7777,IT MEANS A GREAT DEAL TO ME! IF ONLY YOU KNEW…THANK YOU

IM SRY JAX. BUT YOU SEEM LIKE YOUR going to BE OK.YOU HAVE A STRONG HEART.I GET WHAT YOUR SAYING THOUGH.I KNOW THAT IT IS GOING TO BE REAL HARD.AND IM KNOWN TO HANDLE THINGS A BIT ROUGH.BUT…NOT BEING ABLE TO SEE HER FACE EVERYDAY..HER SMILE…I CAN’T IMAGINE LIFE AT ALL AFTER THAT.I LOVE HER SO MUCH.IS THERE ANYTHING I CAN DO???CAN I GIVE MY LIFE BY GIVING HER AN ORGAN OF MY OWN.ID DO IT.I SWARE I WOULD…ID DIE FOR MY MOTHER RIGHT HER RIGHT NOW…ANYDAY,SHE IS TOO WONDERFUL TO NOT HAVE LIVED A FULL AND HAPPY LIFE.IM NOT AS STRONG AS YOU ARE…I CAN’T HANDLE THIS.IT’S TOO MUCH FOR ME.

BUT THANKS FOR YOUR HELP IT MEANS a lot!

well… I’ve never really been through this babe but in order to be strong you must think about how much your mum needs your support. it must be terrible for her, but if you pull yourself together and realise that your mum is the one hurting you can be there for her and be strong. In the end if your mum is in tragic pain,harsher things may be best for her. That way she would no longer be in such pain.

However…with all the new technology and things in the hospitals…she may just pull through it.

best wishes babe xxx

faith can move mountains.. just keep on believing and be positive that she’ll live long..

10 years ago my mother was diagnosed with cancer of the uterus…after a long grueling battle including a complete hysterectomy they finally got rid of the cancer. 4 years ago my mother found out she is in kidney failure…the doctor’s told her that her kidneys would fail completely within 2 years…she’s still here and she’s still fighting. Some days I wonder how she can go on…she’s in constant pain and depressed…but for some reason she’s holding on. I have 2 older brothers and I think it’s hard on them but for me…she’s my best friend, she’s my mommy…I can’t imagine what life will be like without her. I try to be cheerful everyday and not think about it but it’s hard, really hard. My life wouldn’t be the same without her…I look up to her, I ask for advice from her, I learn from her…to not have her around would devastate me. I try to remember to be thankful for the times we’ve had…the good and the bad. I’m thankful that my children got to meet her and got to know her. I know that if she were die tomorrow it would be ok because then she would not be in pain anymore…and I don’t like to see her in pain. It would be hard to get through but I try to keep it in my mind that she needs peace, my pain and suffering I can somehow get through.

It’s hard, everyday is hard but I try to make the most of the time that she is here…because making memories now will last me my lifetime.

I havent been through this with a parent either. Grandparents and a teacher, thats it. However, there is a chance that the tumors are not cancer. Hold onto that hope until you know for sure. Pray pray pray.

I am in a similar situation. The doctor says she has a month or two left now. And I can honestly say, “Hey, I’m ok.” But when I first found out, and I was holding my mothers hand as she lay in the hospital bed, I felt as if I wanted it to be over. Then my mom looks me in the eyes tears were rolling down my face and I will never forget what she said. “Jax, its ok. Don’t be sad, don’t worry. Trust me, I know what I’m doing.” Right then I knew I didn’t have to worry about what happened, because my mom always knew what to do before. So why is now any different? looking back at her smiling face, I said “Ok mom, you know what you’re doing.” Now my heart is free of all worries and pains of what is to come, and I know its because of my mother. I’m not happy, as my mom is all I have now too. But I can go to sleep at night knowing that if my mom dies, she didn’t give up and let go.

I guess what I am saying is, I know its hard. But if you just think about your mom, and trust that she knows what she is doing, it can make it that much easier. I am really sorry that you have to go through this, as I am sorry that anyone does. but I’m sure that you can get through anything no matter how hard it is.