Mind says yes Heart says No.

I’m 16 and I have been dating the same girl for over 6 years, never had an argument or broke up. But the other day I was making out with her and she told me that she wants me to be her first.

My mind was like ‘HELL YEA!’ but my heart is like ‘SLOW DOWN!’. She is 15 and I’m concerned that she isn’t quite ready.

I really want to lose my virginity but I’m afraid I’m not ready. I’m worried that things will change between us and I don’t want to lose her, I honestly think I will marry her.

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Answer #1

All you can do is tell her that your not ready, to slow down that you do love her but that you just want to wait until your both older. There is nothing wrong with waiting it would actually be the responsible thing to do.

Answer #2

You have a lot of girlfriends o.o are you a player? First the Italian girl, the blonde in college, and this girl? Really dude, who are you with now? I hope your not a player ¬¬

Answer #3

I say you should follow your heart. It’s better for you to not have sex then to end up like me with a baby you can hardly take care of and I’m 15 I regreat having sex because I can hardly take care of my self. And my baby daddy ain’t helpin at all. So just wait. It’s best for both of you! :p

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