What can I do about my mean sister?

my sister is nice and mean at the same time sometimes I wish she wasn’t my sister she don’t even treat me like a sister she treats my cousin like a sister and she don’t treat me like one and I am her sister I dont even believe she’s my sister but she is. sometimes I wish she didn’t live with me

Wow we have a lot in common!! !I’m 14 and my LITTLE sister is really mean to me. And when I say mean, I mean really nasty. My little sister doesn’t really have any good friends and there was this girl last year in her class (5th grade) that hated her and they were always fighting and after that whole thing happened at school she’s been really mean to me and it hurts my feelings. I cry a lot. I say things like, “The only thing you know how to do is hate people, and I’m not going to tolerate it anymore!” and then I walk away. I know that she has a lot of anger and jealousy inside, because I’m the prettyier, skinnier one. I go into my room and pretend to not care, but cry again after she tells me to get out of her life, to shut up, and that I don’t belong anywhere. Your sister seems more annoying than mean, and I would trade my sister for yours any day. If you pretend not to care, it really does help, or just laugh at it when she says it to you. I hate my sister so much I honestly wouldn’t care if she wasn’t living. Seriously. The best thing is to diss and ignore, but don’t call names back.

um no im not going to stay out of her way! she gets in my way on purpose and being mean back is the only way I can defend myself! and when she moves out im NEVER going to talk to her again! and the only reason I call her fat is because she says it to me to but im not fat at all im the skinnest in my family so shes a retard!

Being mean back isn’t going to help anything.

Just try to stay out of her way…eventually you’ll both grow up and realize how silly this little rivalry is.

dont call her fat,, if its something she cant control. maybe thats why you get grounded.

just call her something mean, that she can fix about herself

its ok. im 14 and have a 12 year old sister who is always bragging about having more friends than I do. she called me anerxic once and never got in trouble. and when I would never dare call my sister fat. only I wish I could. she calls me a bitc and I don’t get it. why is it that when the older one gets back for wutever the younger one did you get into major trouble. but the younger one keeps coming back for more and more to see if she can push u. I seriously wish I never had a sister idc who says thts mean. she told me to go eat snow once when she was with her friends only cz she had the money and I asked her if I can get a drink. she is a major push over and no matter what I get in trouble for what apperntly is called “airheadness”. goodnees if I could be the living sht out of my sister I would.