Love... How to get past the tough times when boyfriend in jail?

Well, first off, he probably has changed…and I’m sure you have too. Being apart for a year and a half would be hard on any relationship, but then you’re also throwing in him being isolated from the world and that makes it harder. Try to remember that while his life is being put on hold and not really moving forward you are still out there living and having a “life”. He probably can tell what you’re feeling when you talk to him and that probably scares him (being that he can’t do anything about it). He’s probably also frustrated because he wants to be out there “living” with you.

If you really can’t deal with it then you need to move on, but you NEED to be honest with him. It would not be fair to him if you didn’t end it, or you just left him hanging. Try to remember though, you are your number one priority!!! You need to do what’s right for you!!! Do NOT worry about what’s right for someone else.

If you want to stay together then you two really need to talk, both of you. You need to be honest with him. Let him know how you’re feeling. Just do not make him defensive otherwise you’ll be right back here again. Listen to him, ask him how you’ve changed, do not get angry when he tells you…just really listen and then think through what you want to do.

Good luck and I hope everything works out for you.