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Lost a baby - what to say??

My friend just got married, and the wedding was brought forward several months as she had found out she is pregnant and had already bought her stunning wedding dress she couldn’t return. I recently found out that she just lost the baby, which is really sad. Not many people know yet, and I see messages on her profile from people asking how the baby is coming along and how she’s feeling etc. I feel so bad for her, as I’m sure this is upsetting. I kind of want to message the people privately and let them know to shut up and stop asking but is it my place to say..? Do I leave it alone and let her tell them or would I be helping her by opening my mouth?

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Answer #1

It is absolutely not your place to say anything about it to anyone.

Answer #2

I think you should leave it to her to tell people- as much as you’re looking out for her and wanting to make things easier for her, you could end up making things worse. Best of luck to her, it’s not an easy situation at all.

Answer #3

What you could do is talk to her and ask her what you can do to help… That would solve your problem since it really is her decision. If she wants you to help her break the news, then she’ll tell you. If she doesnt, then she’ll decline. Either way, she’ll know that you’re there for her to help her out, she’ll be able to talk if she needs to, and you’ll be able to do this for her if she wants you to.

Answer #4

I think so but its your call I mean thats really really sad if I were you I would do it.

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